Abstinence only cause more pregnancies. What Society must learn from our history

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Guys,

Apparently, http://thinkprogress.org/health/2012/04 ... education/

Now I remember catching up with some guy here on sex and this overly excessive fear of sex and diseases. I actually feel strong emotions for such matter because there's a level of ignorance and lack of knowledge but i think i appreciate the diversity of the human brain and how it learns. Everyone is different.

But yes, people i know in Asia who knocked up some girl were usually the "abstinence only believer kind of guy".

I am not trying to say that guys should strap up everytime, because i know most guys don't, after they get better with women. You can only be prepared to do unorthodox method like asking her squat after ejaculating inside her or take her to shower or basically, don't care at all.

You can't prevent things at a logical level. Mcdonalds tried to be logical with tissue papers but people keep consuming, until it was allowed to be taken for free at an outside counter. Things are lessen . This is one example. Look at our history guys, Bad stuff was removed only because it was allowed while the leaders try to find something else for humans to channel their energy.

Zac

 

[Estate]

Re: Abstinence only cause more pregnancies. What Society must learn from our his

I don't know if I know a lot of young people who "abstained" leading to them cracking and getting knocked up.

But I do know of a lot of people who went for the whold abstinance thing but really they met their first gf/bf very early on like in high school or first year of college and married within a year or maybe 2.

The thing is... in a way it's a bit un-natural. Though I understand and don't judge their morals, humans need sex! And I just found that when a lot of people I knew growing up "abstained", it didn't mean they didn't have sex or waited until later in life to get married and finally lose their virginity.

What it really meant was that they latched on to the first person they could... since their morals or beliefs wouldn't let them sleep with that person outside of wedlock, they married down as early as possible and then again, because of their morals and values, that person has to be the one and only person they will sleep with until the day they die.

The thing is... hey, If I had met "the one" in highschool and felt I never needed to meet another woman again until the day I died... wouldn't that be such a happy existance?
But I often wonder... what percentage of these people are REALLY with this unicorn of a person they say... and how many of them grow up into their 20s/30s/40s just having to convince themselves that this is the case because their beliefs do not allow for anything else.

Are they really happy?

But at the end of the day. Most people who "abstained" when I was young, probably has se just as soon if not sooner than some other people. The difference being they wouldn't allow themselves to have casual sex or even with a partner out of wedlock... so they just put a ring on it ASAP.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Re: Abstinence only cause more pregnancies. What Society must learn from our his

Estate,

But I do know of a lot of people who went for the whold abstinance thing but really they met their first gf/bf very early on like in high school or first year of college and married within a year or maybe 2.

Sorry for the emotional tendencies on this post but i agree. They get married earlier than usual. Actually, i see a mix bag. Guys and girls from poor backgrounds tend to get knocked up and tied up (shotgun, bang bang... lolx). I see religious people getting married early. I see the odd couple and the girl knocked up.

Yea, i see a real mix bag here, a very mix bag here.

But important thing is that i study some parts of history and it has always been more to either us, humans channeling our energy to either violence to get abundance and power or government and leaders allow "consuming abundance until it becomes a norm" that people do not start to care about it anymore.

And I just found that when a lot of people I knew growing up "abstained", it didn't mean they didn't have sex or waited until later in life to get married and finally lose their virginity.

It depends on this one. I knew some who only have heavy makeouts. To us, this sounds pretty odd or funny.

Are they really happy?

Nope, so many cheating cases, divorce rates is statically lower in Asia compared to America but you see flirting and cheating everywhere. Porn industry always profit something, there must be something wrong there. Overall, it is difficult to know because people won't tell the truth. I probably need to have friends of different ages, which i have.

I just need to dig in deep and see more onto what is inside the mix bag!

Zac