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Acknowledging that some kinds of women require more effort than others.

Indian Race Troll (IRT)

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I have this to be the case often. You have a guy who is a virgin past 18, inexperienced, and hasn't been exposed to much game material his entire life. The guy who likely played World of Warcraft instead of sports growing up and was never really a part of the cool crowd. So he decides to get his shit together, work out, and become more social. He runs into some seduction material and tries it on women. Being that he is inexperienced and hasn't had much success in the past, he goes after the hot girl with lots of makeup on who is most likely shallow. The guy regularly goes after the kind of girls who are chasing high status men and naturals. After seeing rejection pile up, the guy gives up and becomes frustrated saying how looks are all that matter.

Now I consider myself to be a natural and I have found over the years that some girls just require a lot more effort than others. Regardless of what PUA says, I have found that hot girls require more effort than more plain looking girls. A 10 will rarely if ever date a guy who lacks sexual experience. What I have found is that girl from lower income areas are somehow more forgiving of a guy whose game is not perfect and since they are straightforward with their attraction there is not much effort involved. Foreign girls are a lot more open minded and accepting than American girls.

What I was thinking of is if we could come up with a way to point out what kind of girls are generally (key word here) easy and what kind of girls are generally hard, we would have a lot less guys who become easily frustrated. At this point I am sure we can all admit that the Blonde Bombshell is not going to go after a guy who is sexually inexperienced unless he has good looks and a lot of money (as confirmed in other threads).

I think we should all shoot for the stars but lets be realistic here, if you are some 20 year old virgin who has never had a girlfriend before, you won't be getting the stunner that all the other guys want.

From what I have seen and many of my friends have confirmed:

- Plain looking girls are generally more receptive to inexperienced men than hot girls (but hot girls are rare in general)
- Foreign girls are more receptive to inexperienced men than American girls are
- Girls from lower income areas are more direct and generally easier than girls from the suburbs and rich places

If we can somehow get this message across to most beginners, wouldn't that ease a lot of the frustration?
 
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I read the article, seems like Chase was trying to make a point but due to the fear of being perceived as "screw ugly girls" he had to make it a bit ambiguous. Just reading the article I could see the effort Chase was trying to make in drawing the fine line between lowering your standards and screwing ugly women but it is a tough thing to do. Guess the moral of my thread is to not chase the same niche but I was also getting at how some cliques and niches are easier than others.
 
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