Hey everyone
This is my first post on here. I started reading Chase's articles a while ago but that's all I was doing: reading. So about a month ago I started going out a couple times of week with the specific intent to meet girls get those digits. Boy was I nervous. I'd sit in my car for half hour reading Chase's articles hoping for some magic motivation. And it came! Then I'd walk out the door and into the store. And it went. Most of these "outings" were fruitless as far as my goal went. But not for the experience. I got better at my eye contact, my posture, just in general my fundamentals. And I started seeing approach invitations. I just wasn't acting on them. Until yesterday.
I was on my lunch break and decided to take it at a local cafe. I went up to the register and placed my order but there was some sort of error with the machine and she left to get the manager. After she left, another girl went to take the register next to her....but there wasn't a line, and I was the only customer. She looked at my badge (whoops forgot to take it off!) and stared at it for a while then looked at me. This was it! Keep eye contact. Smile just slightly to the side. Oh she smiled back! Now OPEN! "Hi..." And that's where my mind started to lock up. She said hey back. I asked her about her day and she mine. We talked a little bit about the other girl and how she was new. But that's about it. Then I got my food and left. My friend said I should go back today and talk to her for real. Ask her what time she gets off and if she wanted to get coffee or dinner or something. I don't know if I will. So yesterday was bittersweet. On the upside I finally talked to someone I didn't know whom I liked and who liked me. On the downside I still haven't gotten used to showing interest and kinda messed up with getting her info. But you know, I'm WAY beyond where I was before. And I actually feel somewhat confident. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks guys!
Cheers,
RYNO
This is my first post on here. I started reading Chase's articles a while ago but that's all I was doing: reading. So about a month ago I started going out a couple times of week with the specific intent to meet girls get those digits. Boy was I nervous. I'd sit in my car for half hour reading Chase's articles hoping for some magic motivation. And it came! Then I'd walk out the door and into the store. And it went. Most of these "outings" were fruitless as far as my goal went. But not for the experience. I got better at my eye contact, my posture, just in general my fundamentals. And I started seeing approach invitations. I just wasn't acting on them. Until yesterday.
I was on my lunch break and decided to take it at a local cafe. I went up to the register and placed my order but there was some sort of error with the machine and she left to get the manager. After she left, another girl went to take the register next to her....but there wasn't a line, and I was the only customer. She looked at my badge (whoops forgot to take it off!) and stared at it for a while then looked at me. This was it! Keep eye contact. Smile just slightly to the side. Oh she smiled back! Now OPEN! "Hi..." And that's where my mind started to lock up. She said hey back. I asked her about her day and she mine. We talked a little bit about the other girl and how she was new. But that's about it. Then I got my food and left. My friend said I should go back today and talk to her for real. Ask her what time she gets off and if she wanted to get coffee or dinner or something. I don't know if I will. So yesterday was bittersweet. On the upside I finally talked to someone I didn't know whom I liked and who liked me. On the downside I still haven't gotten used to showing interest and kinda messed up with getting her info. But you know, I'm WAY beyond where I was before. And I actually feel somewhat confident. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks guys!
Cheers,
RYNO
