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Hey guys, help me to interpret this and, if you can, let me know what I should do!
I cold-approached a girl on a park bench in her lunch-break, sat down next to her, went direct. We built rapport for maybe 5 min. I asked her on a date, she declined. She said she had a BF and it "wouldn't be appropriate, though I'd have loved to otherwise". I persisted, told her I was also attached and there needn't be any serious expectations, we'd just see how things played out.
She said okay, give me your contact details. No way am I falling for that one, I get out my phone and ask her how long she's been dating. She says a year and a half. I hand her my phone and tell her to punch in her number.
There is a lot of fiddling around, I begin to wonder what's going on. Eventually she pings her finger off the screen in a "that's it!" gesture and hands back the phone.
She's saved her number with first name and even company name, as she points out when I remark on her efforts. No doubt so I won't confuse her with all the other girls I've approached by the same name;-) I've never had any girl do this before.
We say goodbye and she moves to hug me, but as you may know I don't tolerate hugging when I have romantic interest in a woman; I cheek-kiss her instead. When she sees this coming, she gives a little "Oh!" of surprise but proffers her cheek willingly.
What's with all this effort on the phone entry? Obviously I will try to move things forward, but any specific guidance?
I cold-approached a girl on a park bench in her lunch-break, sat down next to her, went direct. We built rapport for maybe 5 min. I asked her on a date, she declined. She said she had a BF and it "wouldn't be appropriate, though I'd have loved to otherwise". I persisted, told her I was also attached and there needn't be any serious expectations, we'd just see how things played out.
She said okay, give me your contact details. No way am I falling for that one, I get out my phone and ask her how long she's been dating. She says a year and a half. I hand her my phone and tell her to punch in her number.
There is a lot of fiddling around, I begin to wonder what's going on. Eventually she pings her finger off the screen in a "that's it!" gesture and hands back the phone.
She's saved her number with first name and even company name, as she points out when I remark on her efforts. No doubt so I won't confuse her with all the other girls I've approached by the same name;-) I've never had any girl do this before.
We say goodbye and she moves to hug me, but as you may know I don't tolerate hugging when I have romantic interest in a woman; I cheek-kiss her instead. When she sees this coming, she gives a little "Oh!" of surprise but proffers her cheek willingly.
What's with all this effort on the phone entry? Obviously I will try to move things forward, but any specific guidance?
