addressing attainability issue?

[antidox]

this chick has highlighted an attainability issue concern that she has with me, that she thinks i'm going to meet someone else.

i asked why she thought this, she said that i'm very flirty, confident and charming and that i'll meet someone else where she isn't flirty.

i only talk to chicks that i already know when i'm with her, i don't think it's flirty at all. she's more worried about the competition she's imagined than about the reality. i'm happy she thinks i'm good with chicks but i don't know how to address this concern without looking like a bitch

AntiDox

 

[orkie123]

Find unique and meaningful compliments to tell her. Don't overdo it but figure out what her passions or cute things she does and let her know. If she feels you like her because of things that are unique to her, then she wont be as worried about you chasing other girls.

Whatever you do, don't undermine yourself to prove that you are not a player. Just be vague and tactifully steer the conversation away or make a silly joke and then again steer conversation away (don't let the topic linger). I like to tell girls im a virgin in a playful manner and then when they question me - I say: of course, im a good boy waiting for the right person with a cheeky smile then change topic.

I was once dating a girl who kept asking me my number. Eventually i gave in and told her. Her response "really, I thought you would be on 300" i dont know why she thought that as I was still hopeless but me telling her broke the spell and she quickly moved on from me