Says it in the title. This is a hypothetical because I am not in a committed relationship. I was just reading over Drexel's article on open relationships and Chase's article on not passing commitment points. I'm starting to really see the truth in these and realize how important it is that she thinks you could be sleeping with other women. Now let's say you DO. I preach honesty in relationships so if asked I would not flat out lie and deny cheating. I also don't think coming out and admitting guilt is a good route to take. Eventually I figure a discussion could come up where she accuses you of cheating. Do you then admit it? What to do?