- Joined
- Oct 26, 2015
- Messages
- 246
Sometimes I notice a girl being attracted, while stifling advancement of the courtship.
She's reluctant to things like moving or touch and tries to escape when possible.
The interesting thing: She doesn't say that she has a boyfriend, until I ask.
Most recent example:
1. Meet her at bar. We dance, her eyes locked on. We move to sit. We chat. Great communication, pulls away gracefully when I touch her neck with my lips or the like.
2. The next day she avoids to meet up - or suggests to meet up with her friends joining.
3. Bump into her at the bar again. We repeat similar to the first time, but much shorter since I am tired of wasting time.
4. Bump into her again. All is still good. I ask if she has a boyfriend. She explains it a little, but is still there in my arms.
5. Later, when I approach the group again, they're blocking me out.
Intriguing dynamics;
Apparently a girl behaving like this is somehow open to give in to the seduction at some point.
What could allow herself to do so?
(I was a little playfully-evil by saying something among "... and then you come home and the first message you'll get is: 'We have to talk'". She actually became insecure at this, but I doubt that it's the right way to go.)
She's reluctant to things like moving or touch and tries to escape when possible.
The interesting thing: She doesn't say that she has a boyfriend, until I ask.
Most recent example:
1. Meet her at bar. We dance, her eyes locked on. We move to sit. We chat. Great communication, pulls away gracefully when I touch her neck with my lips or the like.
2. The next day she avoids to meet up - or suggests to meet up with her friends joining.
3. Bump into her at the bar again. We repeat similar to the first time, but much shorter since I am tired of wasting time.
4. Bump into her again. All is still good. I ask if she has a boyfriend. She explains it a little, but is still there in my arms.
5. Later, when I approach the group again, they're blocking me out.
Intriguing dynamics;
Apparently a girl behaving like this is somehow open to give in to the seduction at some point.
What could allow herself to do so?
(I was a little playfully-evil by saying something among "... and then you come home and the first message you'll get is: 'We have to talk'". She actually became insecure at this, but I doubt that it's the right way to go.)
