Adventures in India- Go10's journal

[Go10]

Hello,
I've been reading GC for about 4 months now.

Previously I was living in a pretty small city in India, due to which i wasn't able to game. I've recently shifted to a much bigger city that is one of the only 3 Indian cities where nightgame is possible, the other being Goa and Mumbai.

I am living in a place called Pune, 120 miles from Mumbai.
This city imo, is best for gaming in India. lovely weather.

I've seen fellow countrymen posting here and there about how it is tough and 'impossible' to get laid here off cold approach.
We'll, I'll have to find that out for myself.

Yes, I'll agree it's not going to be easy. people staring when two people of the opposite gender are engaged in a conversation, judging them and the thousands of rape cases and what not.

But, I'm a positive minded guy (mostly), so imo
if a guy can get laid off cold approach or social circle game consistently here, he should be able to get laid easily enough anywhere else in the world.

Description about self :

I would say I'm above average here. Also, my hair is curly and different which makes me stand out.
I am going to be focusing on the following fundamentals for the coming months,
1. Physique
2. Voice.
3. Law of least effort.
4. Walk and posture.

I am lucky to have travelled a lot. I've been to every region in India and to 7-8 asian countries and Europe, as a result of which I have pretty high standards and will dismiss a typical Indian girl as ugly. this is something i wanna work upon. But trust me when I say, there are some absolutely stunning Indian girls.

I have hugeee approach anxiety. This is partly because i am 18 but look 16 and all the girls I find pretty are 20 but look 22.
I am anyway planning to move to Europe after my bachelors so lets see what I can do. if anything, I'll at least improve my writing.

Please feel free to comment and criticize.

At the end of college today, I see this girl from my class. She's not hot or anything, just cute but there's something about her I like. Maybe it's because has this feminine energy that's isn't common in college girls. anyway had met her 2 days back and I could clearly see there was attraction.

So i go up to her, make some small talk. We're staring at each other and..

Me : so......
Her : So what? (obviously knowing what's on my mind)
Me : Let's go out sometime. (said with a mischievous smile)
Her : sure. where do you wanna go?
me : there's a cafe nearby..
her : do you wanna go now?

I had to say no here because
1. I had french class.
2. no way i could escalate in broad daylight in our country.

So i grab her no, but she says she doesn't use WhatsApp or fb and doesn't text much either.

Hmm. i send her an icebreaker text an hour later. haven't received a reply yet. might flake, might not. seeing her in class tomorrow anyway.

The entire time, i could hear my heart beating. Probably because i haven't asked a girl out before. i used to directly invite them to my place, back home.

But I felt good. I'll be doing the newbie assignment soon once i get settled here. that's it for now. long post, but please bear with me.

Peace.

 

[Go10]

Monday and Tuesday

Shitty days. I am not being able to wake up in time and attend classes. Somehow, I feel guilty when I do not attend classes.

Anyway, there's this girl I keep seeing but never had the chance of approaching. lets name her HT. Our campus is very small with only 3k students so i have to be very careful to not get the creep rep.

So, its 10 pm and I decide to walk near our college with two of my friends since we live pretty near our college
We enter the college. Two guys and 4 girls inside. One of my friends knows them so we get introduced to each other and start socialising. HT was one of the girls.

By this point, everyone has been introduced to everyone except me and HT. We look at each other and she gives me 'that' look.
Somehow, she asks me my name. I tell her. Small talk.

I later find out that she is from the same place as me. This completely freezes me, i don't know what to do or say for some reason.

Everyone is walking and talking. HT puts on headphones and starts shaking her hips and body.
I take one of the earphones and

Me : What are you listening to?
HT : *some random shit*
Me : You're from *xxx* , lets listen to metal and headbang
HT : nooo, i hate metal

I grab one of her hands and dance with her for 5-8 secs.
I deep dive her a bit but some clown comes in between.

It was getting late so all of us part ways and say our byes.

Today morning I see her seating alone. I decide to come back after taking a piss, but lo and behold, i now see her surrounded by 5-6 of her friends. I later fins out she has a boyfriend. For some reason, I feel a pang of jealousy. hmm guess i need to talk to more girls

I'm gonna try and ask her out within the next two days or else drop it.


So i keep looking for girls to approach. I see only 2-3 cute girls. In groups. it really pisses me off when I see cute girls in groups. Somehow, I gotta start approaching groups because here, I hardly ever see a girl by herself.
Then while going home, I see a girl crossing the road.

I run to her....only to turn back. i later come home and curse my self.
I've become a pussy after shifting here.
Hopefully, I'll soon get back my balls, literally.

also i have joined a gym and started reading 'No more Mr. Nice guy'.
That's all for now.