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Advice for tricky street game?

TwoNameGame

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I daygame on a university campus full of commuters on the move. I doubt a policeman stop is ideal on campus. I don't care for approach indicators. If a girl simply doesn't interest me, I don't feel motivated.

The problem is that I frequently deal with walking sets who:
  • Are pressed for time and only have 3 minutes to get to class
  • Are rushing off-campus and don't stop to look at me
  • Are walking with a friend in a relatively plain, sunny day without fuel for a situational opener
I'd rather not give up. A common approach has the set talking to me as she walks somewhere and paying little eye contact. She responds well and complies with kino, but doesn't seem to hook well. In cases where she stops, asking her to move even a step always ends in her saying she has to go and walking away.

On occasion, she tells me something like "my friends are ahead" or "here's my destination" often before a high point.

My basic tactics include:
  • Being on my phone as I walk slightly ahead of her before "suddenly" noticing her and opening over my shoulder
  • Open direct with push-pull
  • Trying to match her pace, or being slightly slower
  • Milking an opening handclasp
  • Verbalizing kino, like saying "high five" when I try to give a high five if she isn't looking.
  • Making conversation about where she is going and why she seems excited or puts up with the stress.
  • Speaking slowly

I know approach indicators exist for a reason and campus street game is tough, but I'm wondering:
  1. Is anything I can do to improve my success rate (perhaps compliance)?
  2. Or should I just accept that some approaches are fundamentally unideal and focus on my fundamentals in general?
 

Stark

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I recommend you use campus game as a supplement and not as your only source for cold approach poon.

Any closed environment is harder for daytime cold approach than an open one.

Having that said, here are my 2 cents to get the ball rolling:

1. Start off the first couple of approaches on stationary targets. Girls waiting for Uber, looking at signs or notice boards, crossing the street. This gets you warmed up because of point #2.

2. You need a sharp sense of masculine vigor to penetrate into the reality of a hot girl on the move with a specific agenda (getting to class in 3 minutes). Old schoolers use to call this mojo. We talk about this as 'social momentum' on the forums.

3. Genuiness trumps everything in daytime cold approaches. Throw away any action that you take robotically and repeatedly with every girl. Try reality pacing more than anything to start a conversation
 

OldGuy

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Also, don't focus so much on your attraction Their interest is more important, especially while inexperienced, so you get successful experiences.
 

Skater

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I'm very intimidated by walking daygame sets, so nice job for trying to make it work @TwoNameGame. Taking notes!

Question for you: do you attempt to stop her deliberately after opening if she keep walking?

One way I've seen Todd V talk about and demonstrate is while talking slowing down your pace till you reach a halt with the word salad serving as distraction. I've not had the balls to try it myself, frankly.

Then of course remains the difficulty of moving her further, but to me, any additional locations immediately signify insta-date, with all relevant tactics and techniques to help you there, as in making sure to hook solidly before attempting and leading her on an emotional high point.
 

TwoNameGame

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I'm very intimidated by walking daygame sets, so nice job for trying to make it work @TwoNameGame. Taking notes!
Thanks. I do campus game where game is different from normal day game, but I have a bit of regular experience.

Question for you: do you attempt to stop her deliberately after opening if she keep walking?
On campus, I don't stop women; I walk up next to them and open over my shoulder when slightly ahead of them. Half the time, they stop automatically. Trying to stop women makes them uncomfortable as they think I'm looking for donations or recruiting for Bible study.

Opening over your shoulder is suboptimal outside of campus because the Policman stop nets compliance, screens out reds, and gers her engaged quickly. It feels harder, but everything falls into place so well that being in the moment relieves any stress on your part.

Then of course remains the difficulty of moving her further
On campus, this NEVER worked for me; any woman who stops leaves to continue her course the second I ask her to take even a step even if we talk in the sun for minutes.

Outside of campus, it could be as simple as sitting down of asking her to move away from the sun. Suggest it after hooking her in to make it a natural continuation rather than a real decision.
 

OldGuy

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Back when I was in school, I did not worry about stopping them, but just walked along and arranged dates, or got names (student directory had numbers). It was a large campus though with 20 minutes between classes.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Skater

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On campus, this NEVER worked for me; any woman who stops leaves to continue her course the second I ask her to take even a step even if we talk in the sun for minutes.
Interesting. I guess most girls on campus would be going somewhere specific (class, home, friends, etc.) rather than leisurely strolling like some girls in daygame, widely considered the most amenable to insta-dates.

That brings up two questions:
  1. Would campus girls, heading home with nothing planned for instance, be more insta-date-receptive? (You haven't found them yet). Or is there something inherent in campus environments that would preclude even them? (You won't find them).
  2. Do only leisurely-strolling/no-plans daygame girls agree to insta-dates? (barring Casanova-level game and/or Adonis-quality looks).

got names (student directory had numbers)
You sly dog.
 
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