For context: I’m a 28 year-old woman, single and a virgin + never been in a relationship or on an official date (check my past threads for more info).
I’ve been consistently going out to events and just generally spending time outside alone to meet a man. Since my last post things have been bleak (no approaches from men at all).
Today, I finally saw a guy who’s my visual type (except his short height, but who cares about one variable) at the summer port festival I went to.
He was part of a (friends? colleagues?) group: one hetero couple, one old lady, and another man. I spotted him and chose to follow more or less subtly. This chase continued for 30 minutes without substantial results.
For the most part I’ve no clue if he even consciously noticed me. We didn’t make direct eye contact once. One time we came close to each other by walking towards the same poster, but he just did a quick glance and short polite smile before instantly steering the other way.
15 minutes later, his group stopped by a boat tour sign and I made to walk close past him, but he stepped forwards and away.
I kept walking a bit ahead, then stopped by the stone wall separating beach from port and casually looked around.
Soon enough I saw them as they went down to the beach. The couple walked ahead, the old lady and the other guy fell behind some, and he separated himself in the middle to look around as well, also in my direction but I’ve no idea if he looked on purpose or not.
I slowly followed them, but they sat down on the sand somewhere further away, and since it was getting dark, I basically auto-rejected and was pissed. I got back into the crowd to look for another potential suitor, but found none.
I know this isn’t much to work off of, but maybe I should’ve sat down as well despite the impeding darkness? And if you need more details I’ll provide them. This is a short summary.
I’ve been consistently going out to events and just generally spending time outside alone to meet a man. Since my last post things have been bleak (no approaches from men at all).
Today, I finally saw a guy who’s my visual type (except his short height, but who cares about one variable) at the summer port festival I went to.
He was part of a (friends? colleagues?) group: one hetero couple, one old lady, and another man. I spotted him and chose to follow more or less subtly. This chase continued for 30 minutes without substantial results.
For the most part I’ve no clue if he even consciously noticed me. We didn’t make direct eye contact once. One time we came close to each other by walking towards the same poster, but he just did a quick glance and short polite smile before instantly steering the other way.
15 minutes later, his group stopped by a boat tour sign and I made to walk close past him, but he stepped forwards and away.
I kept walking a bit ahead, then stopped by the stone wall separating beach from port and casually looked around.
Soon enough I saw them as they went down to the beach. The couple walked ahead, the old lady and the other guy fell behind some, and he separated himself in the middle to look around as well, also in my direction but I’ve no idea if he looked on purpose or not.
I slowly followed them, but they sat down on the sand somewhere further away, and since it was getting dark, I basically auto-rejected and was pissed. I got back into the crowd to look for another potential suitor, but found none.
I know this isn’t much to work off of, but maybe I should’ve sat down as well despite the impeding darkness? And if you need more details I’ll provide them. This is a short summary.
