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Hi guys. have been lurking for a while, am quite book smart on this stuff (read all chase's stuff) but often screw up in the field.
So I hooked up with this girl in a club a few weeks ago. Back to mine for lots of booze and sex. great time. she's making noises about me taking her out for dinner. i duck but get her number.
casual banter over the course of the next weeks. in the run up to christmas, we casually trade arrangements and I end up in the same club as her. I am drunk and dont recognise her. She is offended. I recover, try and rebuild and eventually we leave and head back to mine again.
After about half an hour at mine (drinking, some light kissing etc), she makes an excuse to go have a cigarette outside (she can smoke in my place) and doesnt come back. About 15 mins later I get a text message apologising and saying she spun out and had to go home.
now, it is by now 4 am and I am drunk and feeling a bit needy so like an AFC I reply something like "well that is rude but no problem, if you fancy coming back and watching a film please do as have nothing to do the rest of the day till I drive home". Yes. I know, I apologise if any of you are physically cringing.
You know what? I dont get a reply!
So the question is how, and whether, I try and resurrect this. (The funny thing is I quite like her and would like to take her for dinner some time......)
EDIT- a few days later I noticed that my phone line had been ripped out of the wall socket. (i had taken off the cover to look at it) I dont remember doing this but its possible, so there is the chance she accidentally did this and was so embarrassed she took off. (She is 24, I am 36) Do I acknowledge this or ignore it?
All advice (like donations) gratefully received
DD
So I hooked up with this girl in a club a few weeks ago. Back to mine for lots of booze and sex. great time. she's making noises about me taking her out for dinner. i duck but get her number.
casual banter over the course of the next weeks. in the run up to christmas, we casually trade arrangements and I end up in the same club as her. I am drunk and dont recognise her. She is offended. I recover, try and rebuild and eventually we leave and head back to mine again.
After about half an hour at mine (drinking, some light kissing etc), she makes an excuse to go have a cigarette outside (she can smoke in my place) and doesnt come back. About 15 mins later I get a text message apologising and saying she spun out and had to go home.
now, it is by now 4 am and I am drunk and feeling a bit needy so like an AFC I reply something like "well that is rude but no problem, if you fancy coming back and watching a film please do as have nothing to do the rest of the day till I drive home". Yes. I know, I apologise if any of you are physically cringing.
You know what? I dont get a reply!
So the question is how, and whether, I try and resurrect this. (The funny thing is I quite like her and would like to take her for dinner some time......)
EDIT- a few days later I noticed that my phone line had been ripped out of the wall socket. (i had taken off the cover to look at it) I dont remember doing this but its possible, so there is the chance she accidentally did this and was so embarrassed she took off. (She is 24, I am 36) Do I acknowledge this or ignore it?
All advice (like donations) gratefully received
DD
