Advice Needed

[NewBeeWinner]

Hey guys,

Needing advice. If youve been following, the mutual friend girl from my journals (Ive been slightly physical with her) went with another friend (who also blocked me on messenger) and talked with the pastor of my church group about me being sexual.

I got a call from my pastor tonight saying "Ive gotten a few compliants about you from some of the girls saying youve been sexually immoral and doing sexually immoral acts with them. is this true?" to which I said no I havent done any acts (which I havent - she initiated and I just took it from there). I pushed back talking to him tomorrow but for now Im not allowed back.

Basically, this girl wanted me to be in a relationship with her and to not flirt with any other girls or her and to be more godly. When I said I cant change that Im a sexual guy and some other things, we both got frustrated and I eventually blocked her to move on. Now I think its just her getting back at me even tho when we did get physical, she intiated (and she told me so herself).

What are your guys' thoughts? The quicker the better!

Thank you for your perspectives,

NBW

 

[naturalmikey]

there's a saying "don't shit where you eat." girls are seriously nuts. the amount that have severe mental problems is quite frightening, consider the power women hold based on looks alone. anyway, women can destroy your social standing. meeting women outside your work, church, friends group is ideal.

 

[JacobPalmer]

Agreed, definitely don't shit where you eat.

Also, stop going to church then.

Also, should have told your pastor, "Hell yes all these bitches love me, we're all being immoral together."

 

[NewBeeWinner]

Hahaha thanks guys.

Yeah Im definately learning this the hard way. Apparently he was told I was asking for sexual favors and making sexual advances and hes wanting to see texts. I wasnt and my texts reflect that so I think itll be fine as long as I maintain my frame.

Will update in a few weeks when everyone meets.

NBW