Advice needed

[FixYourselves]

Hi,

I would like advice because I'm now 24 and still a virgin. I have had success with women in the past, but not since my teen years, so I have lost 'momentum' in this respect. I have achieved a lot that I am proud of, and am generally a very confident person. I am completely confident talking to girls, flirting, and have many female friends and aquaintences.

My issue is not with confidence as such, it is more a case of how to use it. Specifically, I have an issue with getting past friendship. I can build emotional connections with girls and the rest of it, but actually being able to push through the 'friend barrier' and take things to the next level is a real issue for me.

It can be hard to know where to look for advice/guidance for this issue, so I thought I would try this forum.

My question is: where do I start in terms of taking the next steps?

Thanks.

 

[Rhaegar]

Of course it's hard to break out of the friend barrier. The point is you're not supposed to enter the friendzone in the first place.


Here, let me give you example.

You are basically asking how to get out of jail when you got a life sentence for murdering a cop. And if you asked someone for advice, they would say you should have not gone to jail in the first palce by not killing the cop.

So how do prevent yourself from getting into the friendzone with new girls? cuz you're not getting out with the old girls so just go no contact on them

for new girls, move fast and make it clear you want to go on a date with them the first time you meet them, and try to push for sex on that first date

sure some girls will reject you, but you will never be friendzoned again. You wont be in jail because you finally stopped murdering cops

 

[Mr.Rob]

You don't interact with women in a man to woman polarity (masculine/feminine energy) but instead you interact in a friend-to-friend polarity (platonic from both ends).

The girls you may be attracted to that are "your friends" don't think of you as having a penis, instead you're more of an asexual being that provides value in other ways rather than pure DONG.

So you have to lose the "nice guy" character and explore into the worlds of expressing and embodying your masculinity.

She needs to know
1. You have a dick

2. if you were to get alone with her she would be 100% confident you'd show her your dick.

This does two things...
1. Makes girls uniterested flee away in shear terror

2. Makes girls that are interested crawl all over you because there is such a scarcity of red blooded males that are willing/know how to behave in the masculine polarity, you become valuable due sheerly to you DONG.

lol.

I've been there and done that one. Most guys start off as over eager nice guys, you have to slowly but surely change your behavior characteristics until you become a raging asshole... just kidding you don't have to go that far! But you can and that's the beauty of it!

Good luck, and welcome to the boards =)

-Rob