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Advice on some Difficult Cold Approach Scenarios?

Pedro P

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So I have 2 difficult cold approach scenarios that I’m trying to figure out how best to do.



1. Girl at the Gas Station - literally 30 second to maybe 2 minute approach time.

She had Maine plates and had just moved here cross country. Says she’s am aspiring dancer. She was on the phone with someone (sounded like a guy). I gave her a piece of paper with my info saying I could show her around town, and for her to hit me up. She was nice but never heard from here…

2. Hot Japanese Waitress at high end sushi restaurant downtown - picked up an order for my buddy and the crew we were working a gig with later (I personally am not a sushi fan but it’s kinda a work thing). There was this stunning tall voluptuous Japanese waitress working the room. Place was packed. I was at the front desk with an old, not so friendly Japanese Lady. Everyone working the place was Japanese. I asked the old Lady if it was a family restaurant - she looked at me like an Alien. I said - Corporate or Family restaurant. She grunted - Corporate!

I was trying to figure out how the Hell I could Cold Approach the Waitress. I saw her name tag - Yuko

I thought, maybe I can go back later this week around 4 or 5 pm and either ask when she’s working or maybe she’s working then but I don’t know how I’d isolate or even pitch her???
Plus the Japanese thing.

I haven’t had much luck with the Japanese or Koreans out here.
They look at me like an Alien when I cold approach.
American Chinese I have no problem being friends with, but Chinese girls aren’t my thing.
The Korean, Japanese and rare Thai can be stunning.

Suggestions - Advice??
 
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