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In high school, when you took the prettiest girl out to prom, went to a house party at a guy's house when his parents were away and made out with a girl there, and those kinds of fun experiences; you felt fulfilled in life.
In college, the opportunities were even more bizarre. Formals with sororities, date nights, making out with girls at house parties, having sex on spring break, and I could literally go on forever.
In the real world, it seems like sex isn't really supposed to be exciting or that fulfilling. You just kinda have sex and then it's just whatever. In the school years it was something that everyone wanted, glorified, and often thought highly of. Sex was exciting, fulfilling, and amazing for some reason because it was the "cool" thing to do. Making out with hot girls and having pics go up on social media was something I missed out on.
Now as an adult, sex is something that is just supposed to happen and is normal. For some reason, I feel jaded about this feeling. That you're just supposed to have sex and it's supposed to be whatever. I think it is the same reason I feel so against the idea of marriage, that the girl I settle down with would have likely fucked a lot of other guys and had the great sex and I would just be a meal ticket to her.
I wonder, what are some fulfilling and confidence boosting experiences you can have in the game as a guy who is past the age of 25 and no longer in a school setting?
In college, the opportunities were even more bizarre. Formals with sororities, date nights, making out with girls at house parties, having sex on spring break, and I could literally go on forever.
In the real world, it seems like sex isn't really supposed to be exciting or that fulfilling. You just kinda have sex and then it's just whatever. In the school years it was something that everyone wanted, glorified, and often thought highly of. Sex was exciting, fulfilling, and amazing for some reason because it was the "cool" thing to do. Making out with hot girls and having pics go up on social media was something I missed out on.
Now as an adult, sex is something that is just supposed to happen and is normal. For some reason, I feel jaded about this feeling. That you're just supposed to have sex and it's supposed to be whatever. I think it is the same reason I feel so against the idea of marriage, that the girl I settle down with would have likely fucked a lot of other guys and had the great sex and I would just be a meal ticket to her.
I wonder, what are some fulfilling and confidence boosting experiences you can have in the game as a guy who is past the age of 25 and no longer in a school setting?
