Ive been experimenting with different sorts of messaging girls after our first meet, which usually happens after me cold approaching. I always ask for a date, and tell them that I will text her so we can arrange something. Now the question is, do you ask her out in your first text or do you send her a rapport-building text first?
What I normally do is send them a short little text that it was nice meeting them. This happens a couple of hours after our first meet. This way they get my number and are primed for me to continue texting them. After this Ill wait a couple of days, reconnect with them and ask them out.
I've seen that this approach is not very consistent at getting her out so I've tried to ask her out within my first message lately. But my results hasn't been noticeable.
So what are your experiences? When should you ask her out?
What I normally do is send them a short little text that it was nice meeting them. This happens a couple of hours after our first meet. This way they get my number and are primed for me to continue texting them. After this Ill wait a couple of days, reconnect with them and ask them out.
I've seen that this approach is not very consistent at getting her out so I've tried to ask her out within my first message lately. But my results hasn't been noticeable.
So what are your experiences? When should you ask her out?
