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Hi guys, I'm new here, but have been reading chase's articles for a half year or so.
I just got back from a date that went mediocre. I'll tell you how it all went, and I hope you can help me with some ever returning issues with my game. If you need more specifics, I'd be happy to give them. So here we go:
I went to this big techno event this Thursday, and met this super cute girl there. She wasn't really my type, but I just knew I liked her the minute I saw her. Fortunately for me, she had the same exact idea about me. And, not uncommon at techno parties, we were both on x, which made the whole evening that much greater. We couldn't keep our hands off each other the entire evening, but since she was there with (sort of- mutual) friends, we couldn't really do much more than kissing, hugging and talking. It was a great night and I really started to feel something for this girl, and she said we should start dating, and so we did.
Allas, our first date was today. We went to shop for clothes (I needed a sweater for that damned autumn cold) and a drink somewhere. But of course, we weren't on x this time, so it was kinda exciting to see if we'd still match. When we greeted each other, it started with a quick kiss, nothing too special. Then we started walking around town, and we had reasonable convo's, about all the boring stuff of life you always talk about (friends, work, school, etc, etc) but nothing too interesting. And even though I was Kino-escalating by putting my arm around her, I got nothing back physically. She wouldn't put her arm around my waist, or give some sign that she liked it, so after a while I would just drop it again.
She was talking a lot though. Even when we we're sitting on a bench just talking, and we were very close, every time when I looked her in the eyes en tried to go in for a kiss, JUST before I made the move, she'd face the other way. Even though we've been kissing all night just 4 days ago. After a while she had to go home to eat with her parents, and I got a quick kiss again just as she boarded the train. All in all, I would say the conversations where mediocre, not super interesting and really just small talk. When I asked when we'd meet again, she said she wouldn't have a lot of time the next two weeks, which, by my experience, means I won't be seeing her again.
I do great at just picking girls up at bars and parties, due to my height, looks, and pretty good kino-escalation techniques, but also in bars and parties I can't really get much further than small talk. So I think I've got two problems here:
1. I can't really get past small talk
2. When I pick a girl up, at a party or bar, I can't really get that vibe back on the "first"-date afterwards, and even just kissing gets to be a huge obstacle.
How do I resolve this, and, with some feint hope, could I still get this girl to see me again? I really thought she was real girlfriend material, you know //
Greetings,
DUTCH
I just got back from a date that went mediocre. I'll tell you how it all went, and I hope you can help me with some ever returning issues with my game. If you need more specifics, I'd be happy to give them. So here we go:
I went to this big techno event this Thursday, and met this super cute girl there. She wasn't really my type, but I just knew I liked her the minute I saw her. Fortunately for me, she had the same exact idea about me. And, not uncommon at techno parties, we were both on x, which made the whole evening that much greater. We couldn't keep our hands off each other the entire evening, but since she was there with (sort of- mutual) friends, we couldn't really do much more than kissing, hugging and talking. It was a great night and I really started to feel something for this girl, and she said we should start dating, and so we did.
Allas, our first date was today. We went to shop for clothes (I needed a sweater for that damned autumn cold) and a drink somewhere. But of course, we weren't on x this time, so it was kinda exciting to see if we'd still match. When we greeted each other, it started with a quick kiss, nothing too special. Then we started walking around town, and we had reasonable convo's, about all the boring stuff of life you always talk about (friends, work, school, etc, etc) but nothing too interesting. And even though I was Kino-escalating by putting my arm around her, I got nothing back physically. She wouldn't put her arm around my waist, or give some sign that she liked it, so after a while I would just drop it again.
She was talking a lot though. Even when we we're sitting on a bench just talking, and we were very close, every time when I looked her in the eyes en tried to go in for a kiss, JUST before I made the move, she'd face the other way. Even though we've been kissing all night just 4 days ago. After a while she had to go home to eat with her parents, and I got a quick kiss again just as she boarded the train. All in all, I would say the conversations where mediocre, not super interesting and really just small talk. When I asked when we'd meet again, she said she wouldn't have a lot of time the next two weeks, which, by my experience, means I won't be seeing her again.
I do great at just picking girls up at bars and parties, due to my height, looks, and pretty good kino-escalation techniques, but also in bars and parties I can't really get much further than small talk. So I think I've got two problems here:
1. I can't really get past small talk
2. When I pick a girl up, at a party or bar, I can't really get that vibe back on the "first"-date afterwards, and even just kissing gets to be a huge obstacle.
How do I resolve this, and, with some feint hope, could I still get this girl to see me again? I really thought she was real girlfriend material, you know //
Greetings,
DUTCH
