Age Issues

[AsianPersuasion]

I was deleting a bunch of phone numbers I had accumulated within the last month or so, and realized that as many number closes I got, it almost never led anywhere. I almost always get phone number flakes from girls who otherwise seem fairly receptive of me... This last one with the girl that really flowed with me on a mini date took me by surprise, and it got me wondering...

Do girls just get less risk adverse as they age? Is it just the fact that I'm 17 and going after 17 year olds, or is it all part of the process? What do you guys think? I'll continue pickup either way, because I love seeing how much better I'm getting at interactions.

 

[Richard]

I don't think I can offer any fair or rather any personal advice on this one, as, I started picking women up once I graduated from high school, so, in my girl experience I haven't dealt with girls who were under 19 ( I'm only 18 myself). But my assumption is maturity levels. While I never dated girls my own age in high school (dated one girl for a year, my senior year, she was 20, I was 18) and she took up all my time, and while I wasn't active in dating girls in my school, I paid clear attention to people who did date. Girls of your age seem to be even more playful/ cute, than more mature girls. High school relationships are usually composed of status dating, in the moment sex, and rarely have I ever seen couples actually go out and date. Texting is almost always sexual and doesn't follow the process (most of the time) that girlschase teaches. Girls your age are different than older women ( which is why I like mature women a little older than myself ), so, if I were in your shoes I would experiment with texting girls your age differently. Use some trial and error to find what works for girls your age, don't necessarily follow this site's specific advice for women on high school girls
-Hope this helped,
Richard

 

[AsianPersuasion]

Thanks Zphix! I totally agree with you with liking older girls... This is part of the reason I stopped asking what a girl's age was all together. They seem a lot more socially adept and easier to talk to than the girls my age.

Instead of ruling out texting as a waste of time and asking the girl out on a date right there, I'll try just texting her and asking her out later. I think I lost a good number of them just asking them out right then and there when they would have been more comfortable with texting first.

Maybe whirlwind romances will have to wait, but for now, I'll be experimenting on how things work at my age.

Thanks for the help Richard!

 

[Richard]

It's funny because, in about another year or so, you'll see the maturity in development. The year from 17 to 18 is actually quite substantial, and talking with girls your age is harder because of the energy. Girls who are 17 generally have no idea what they're doing with their lives, and are in the moment ( making for easier lays if you're into that), they hardly ever have the capacity to maintain a good relationship, and even if they have aspirations for a good relationship, don't know how to go about getting one, at least until guys like you and me show her what it's all about
-Anyway, good luck out there AP, you're progressing very nicely,
Rich

 

[Smurf]

Yo AP,

I've done some texting with girls our age, and Chase's techniques still work to an extent. Obviously cut the texting short unless you're done sort of texting genius. We're gonna have to deal with girls who are EXTREMELY socially ignorant so I think the skeptical look will be your best friend. Social proof is also your best friend, and pre selection will help tons. Once also noticed that "bad boy" traits are very helpful.

That's what I've got on this.

Jake.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Do girls just get less risk adverse as they age? Is it just the fact that I'm 17 and going after 17 year olds, or is it all part of the process? What do you guys think? I'll continue pickup either way, because I love seeing how much better I'm getting at interactions.

Depends though. I was 22 and i dated a 28 year old teacher. It's how you project vibes.

If you the relax, cool guy, or also philosophical guy, and conversational, Older women catch on you fast, while young women finds you unrelatable. I had young women want me but they just can't connect with me. I can see it that they feel i am unrelatable, and also because friends are around. It's a vibe thing you need to alter back and off for the women you going.

Zac

 

[Richard]

Depends though. I was 22 and i dated a 28 year old teacher. It's how you project vibes.

If you the relax, cool guy, or also philosophical guy, and conversational, Older women catch on you fast, while young women finds you unrelatable. I had young women want me but they just can't connect with me. I can see it that they feel i am unrelatable, and also because friends are around. It's a vibe thing you need to alter back and off for the women you going.

THAT ^^^^
-I had actually never thought of this lately. I used to always think this before when girls couldn't connect with me, but lately, or rather, since I'd learned to talk to women, I'd never thought of how I projected myself like this... This is simply said, yet so vitally important =)

 

[Good Vibes]

I was deleting a bunch of phone numbers I had accumulated within the last month or so, and realized that as many number closes I got, it almost never led anywhere.

Do girls just get less risk adverse as they age? Is it just the fact that I'm 17 and going after 17 year olds, or is it all part of the process? What do you guys think?

It has nothing to do with age. Get their phone number, then keep talking to them for a while longer before you take off.

 

[AsianPersuasion]

Jake D, I think from now on, I only go with a wingman/wingwoman so I can get some sort of social proof and don't look to them as some guy who's always alone. It seems to really help!

Zphix, ZacAdams, this is the reason I relate to older women so much more... They have so much more to talk about and have more stuff figured out, and it makes it ten times easier to relate to them. There are some girls I met at my age that had so little to talk about that I almost felt sorry for them. This almost never happens with older girls. What vibe should I project towards girls that aren't very philosophical or conversational?

GoodVibes, I'll continue to try keeping my interactions longer, and I ain't stopping till they ban me from every single public area in Minnesota

Thanks guys!

 

[trashKENNUT]

FOR GUYS, who wonder if age is an issue.

Zac