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Background info
Right after the date with the awkward girl, I wanted to do some daygame, so I decided to go to the campus. At the uni I saw a familiar face. it was aiki girl. I knew her from the aikido lessons I took at the gym, but I didn’t like the class, because there were to many beginners.
Anyway we were talking, catching up things. In my mind I was “Hmm she’s pretty cute, I would do her” So Iater I asked if she was single and she said yes. Then we setup a date this week. We didn’t know when, so we exchange numbers for logistics. The next day I texted her to plan the date. She texted that she could do Friday and suggested to grab a drink at the uni cafe.
Date
The next day we had a date at the uni campus. I live close to the uni so it’s ideal place for me. It was a beautiful day. Sunny, no clouds and the temperature was nice. We bought our drinks and sat down outside.
She’s a really talkative person. Which is a good thing. Because I prefer to listen than to talk. We talked about our studies, travelling in europe. My experience in Poland. Our childhoods. I felt some connection but it wasn’t really that strong. The reason for this is we don’t have much in common though, but that shouldn’t be a issue for short term. Only in the long term would that give problems.
During our date she mentioned she has to go back to her parents soon to walk her dog (Just like my previous date what a coïncident) and she had plans with her sister in the evening. 45 minutes has passed I knew in my mind that she had to go soon but I still decided to try to pull her. I suggested that we should watch a documentaire about pickpocking at my place ( A topic I’ve planted during our date). She agreed.
My place
When we arrived at my place. I showed her around. Then we went to my room. I told her she can sit on my bed while I was grabbing drinks. I turned on the laptop and the tv, which were connected to eachother. Then I sat next to her. During that time, I was feeling nervous man. I was trying to find the perfect moment to kiss her, but there weren’t any good moments.
5 minutes later I just took her hand and placed it around me. Then I grabbed her chin and kissed her. She pulled back first ( which is a bad thing) Later I kissed her again. Now she was more willing. It started to become heavy. My hands were all over her body.. I wanted to take off her vest but it’s a very thin one and is wrapped around her arms. So I asked her to take it off (mistake #1 never ask just do it). She didn’t want to.Then I told her to stand up. We started kissing again. Now I just took off her vest without any resistance. After that we were laying on the bed. I was on top of her. I wanted to turn off the laptop, because the sound was little bit distracting me. (mistake #2) It made her think logical again.
A few moments later she says she has to go back to her parents place. In my mind I was fuck, time flies fast. I thought we could have sex in 30 minutes. I never knew foreplay had taken so long. I couldn’t think of any reason to persuade her to stay. Also she has told me before that she couldn’t stay that long. Not sure if this was the good choice but I decided to stop escalating and let her go catch her train. She got dressed up. I walked with her and outside we kiss goodbye to eachother.
I will probably text her the next day to plan for a second dates. Or she lost interest. Only time will tell.
Should I have turn this into a informational date or just push harder?
Some tips/advice would be helpful.
Right after the date with the awkward girl, I wanted to do some daygame, so I decided to go to the campus. At the uni I saw a familiar face. it was aiki girl. I knew her from the aikido lessons I took at the gym, but I didn’t like the class, because there were to many beginners.
Anyway we were talking, catching up things. In my mind I was “Hmm she’s pretty cute, I would do her” So Iater I asked if she was single and she said yes. Then we setup a date this week. We didn’t know when, so we exchange numbers for logistics. The next day I texted her to plan the date. She texted that she could do Friday and suggested to grab a drink at the uni cafe.
Date
The next day we had a date at the uni campus. I live close to the uni so it’s ideal place for me. It was a beautiful day. Sunny, no clouds and the temperature was nice. We bought our drinks and sat down outside.
She’s a really talkative person. Which is a good thing. Because I prefer to listen than to talk. We talked about our studies, travelling in europe. My experience in Poland. Our childhoods. I felt some connection but it wasn’t really that strong. The reason for this is we don’t have much in common though, but that shouldn’t be a issue for short term. Only in the long term would that give problems.
During our date she mentioned she has to go back to her parents soon to walk her dog (Just like my previous date what a coïncident) and she had plans with her sister in the evening. 45 minutes has passed I knew in my mind that she had to go soon but I still decided to try to pull her. I suggested that we should watch a documentaire about pickpocking at my place ( A topic I’ve planted during our date). She agreed.
My place
When we arrived at my place. I showed her around. Then we went to my room. I told her she can sit on my bed while I was grabbing drinks. I turned on the laptop and the tv, which were connected to eachother. Then I sat next to her. During that time, I was feeling nervous man. I was trying to find the perfect moment to kiss her, but there weren’t any good moments.
5 minutes later I just took her hand and placed it around me. Then I grabbed her chin and kissed her. She pulled back first ( which is a bad thing) Later I kissed her again. Now she was more willing. It started to become heavy. My hands were all over her body.. I wanted to take off her vest but it’s a very thin one and is wrapped around her arms. So I asked her to take it off (mistake #1 never ask just do it). She didn’t want to.Then I told her to stand up. We started kissing again. Now I just took off her vest without any resistance. After that we were laying on the bed. I was on top of her. I wanted to turn off the laptop, because the sound was little bit distracting me. (mistake #2) It made her think logical again.
A few moments later she says she has to go back to her parents place. In my mind I was fuck, time flies fast. I thought we could have sex in 30 minutes. I never knew foreplay had taken so long. I couldn’t think of any reason to persuade her to stay. Also she has told me before that she couldn’t stay that long. Not sure if this was the good choice but I decided to stop escalating and let her go catch her train. She got dressed up. I walked with her and outside we kiss goodbye to eachother.
I will probably text her the next day to plan for a second dates. Or she lost interest. Only time will tell.
Should I have turn this into a informational date or just push harder?
Some tips/advice would be helpful.
