There seems to be common misconception in seduction, sort of black or white thinking, all or nothing attitude.
In life, there is lots of grey areas, most things are not clear cut, situations or attitudes don't have to be perfect to work, you don't have to become CEO to get laid, you don't have to be right wing extremist or left wing nut to seduce a girl... Said differently, you can be casual guy who doesn't do anything unusual, and you can still get That girl...
Couple examples:
* Some long term relationships work. You don't see the girl, you text a lot, you meet a lot of people and she does too - and after some while you ended up together
* Some rejections work. You go after that girl, you get rejected. You try again and again, and she rejects you again you try one more time - and she gives in.
* Some chasing works. You chase and chase, until she gives up.
* Being Nice Guy sometimes work. You are nice, she likes it, and you end up together. I've seen many hot girls with casual Nice Guys, but that may be cultural...
* Being asshole, being leading and dominant, being active sometimes doesn't work. You may gross her out and she rejects you, and she goes for Nice(r) Guy
* Sometimes not having a clue how to seduce a girl works. You go out, you do the stupidest things you can, you behave like anti-GC, and you still end up with a girl you wanted
And so on. The point is, that MOST of the times these things don't work. I was e.g. A Nice Guy, I was passive and not leading, I spent long time over the phone and Internet before I even met her, I didn't push for sex - and it ended up being long term relationship, she was investing and so on. Good luck trying that as a strategy though...
Is this a great strategy? Of course not, you are 100x better off with following GC. But it may work too. What I'm trying to say is, that you don't need to become perfect seducer to get girls. You can do many mistakes and still ended up being with her.
All it boils down is, that you have to meet her face to face. It doesn't really matter if you have $1000 shoes or if you are pretending to be a bum. It doesn't matter if you have sexy smiles or not, if you are dominant or not. All it really matters is whether she likes you enough...
In life, there is lots of grey areas, most things are not clear cut, situations or attitudes don't have to be perfect to work, you don't have to become CEO to get laid, you don't have to be right wing extremist or left wing nut to seduce a girl... Said differently, you can be casual guy who doesn't do anything unusual, and you can still get That girl...
Couple examples:
* Some long term relationships work. You don't see the girl, you text a lot, you meet a lot of people and she does too - and after some while you ended up together
* Some rejections work. You go after that girl, you get rejected. You try again and again, and she rejects you again you try one more time - and she gives in.
* Some chasing works. You chase and chase, until she gives up.
* Being Nice Guy sometimes work. You are nice, she likes it, and you end up together. I've seen many hot girls with casual Nice Guys, but that may be cultural...
* Being asshole, being leading and dominant, being active sometimes doesn't work. You may gross her out and she rejects you, and she goes for Nice(r) Guy
* Sometimes not having a clue how to seduce a girl works. You go out, you do the stupidest things you can, you behave like anti-GC, and you still end up with a girl you wanted
And so on. The point is, that MOST of the times these things don't work. I was e.g. A Nice Guy, I was passive and not leading, I spent long time over the phone and Internet before I even met her, I didn't push for sex - and it ended up being long term relationship, she was investing and so on. Good luck trying that as a strategy though...
Is this a great strategy? Of course not, you are 100x better off with following GC. But it may work too. What I'm trying to say is, that you don't need to become perfect seducer to get girls. You can do many mistakes and still ended up being with her.
All it boils down is, that you have to meet her face to face. It doesn't really matter if you have $1000 shoes or if you are pretending to be a bum. It doesn't matter if you have sexy smiles or not, if you are dominant or not. All it really matters is whether she likes you enough...
