Alleviating boredom fatigue when daygaming

[average_daygamer]

Just got back from a session in my nearby daygame small city (population approx 150k according to Google) and managed 3 approaches in 4 1/2 hours.

The reason? Not enough volume. I was walking down the centre of the high street. Up then down then back up.

Loads of people. You could barely move in some places! But not a lot in terms of sets.

Depending how much of an animal you are when out solo, you may have approached a few girls out with their families, boyfriends, Milfs with their kids. But I look for single sets or 2 sets with the occasional 3 set.

Hardly any single sets or pairs until nightgame time. In fact, I see more sets during the weekday evenings than I do during Saturdays.

Very few PATs (Potential Approach Targets) out on Saturdays.

So after 4.5 hours of just wandering around in circles, I decide to head back home on the bus.

This is why I am getting a taste for night game, despite my hatred of alcohol, music and bright lights. The one thing good is that it brings a large number of hot girls, all 18 or older (but not too old ) and puts them in a static environment where you can approach them. Although I find the environment highly distasteful, logistically speaking, it makes sense.

I love the audacity of daygame but I am just not finding the volume. What I got done today was barely a warmup in the space of 41/2 hours.

 

[average_daygamer]

I went out today again, to my small daygame city.

I found 3 sets to approach in 3 1/2 hours.

Daygame just doesn't provide the volume and chasing after girls gets boring fast. This is why I have recently been doing a bit of nightgame.

But in night game you have the club which is the main approaching venue and the street. I find pubs to be too many groups of friends who already know eachother and aren't there to be approached.

But anyway, there are very few 3rd spaces where I can really get the reps in.

But normally in a night I can do 10 approaches just out on the street, because there are so many girls out whom you know must be at least 18. But I don't see that many adults out during the day, just milling around to be approached.

Anyway I put in a 3 1/2 hour shift today and a _ 1/2 hour shift yesterday. As soon as the uni students leave town, there is just no volume during the day, it seems.

So I get very bored of walking up and down the same high street over and over, which was what I meant by this thread.

 

[isildur1]

you need to move to a higher population city - 150k population is nothing and you will end up meeting the same women over and over again by remaining in the same location - for context the lowest population city ive daygamed in was 1 million - the highest was 10 million. - i did daygame in one small city of 135k people in cambridge uk ( a university city) and it was a struggle because i was often approaching a lot of women who were friends with the previous women i met - obviously not good

work on your why - you seem to be seeing meeting women as a chore - if you treat social interactions as a chore it will rub off on the women you approach

 

[average_daygamer]

you need to move to a higher population city - 150k population is nothing and you will end up meeting the same women over and over again by remaining in the same location - for context the lowest population city ive daygamed in was 1 million - the highest was 10 million. - i did daygame in one small city of 135k people in cambridge uk ( a university city) and it was a struggle because i was often approaching a lot of women who were friends with the previous women i met - obviously not good

work on your why - you seem to be seeing meeting women as a chore - if you treat social interactions as a chore it will rub off on the women you approach

That's interesting that you daygame in Cambridge. My city is also the same type of city, a small university city. I notice as soon as the uni students leave, it's desolate. Just a few chavy local girls and that's about it.

I went on a big pre Christmas push last year and collected 8 phone numbers, all bar 1 very average local girl were uni students. They all flaked but that's a different story.

Since the uni's have broken up for summer, I've had nothing.

As for why I see daygame as a chore, it's literally what I described in this thread. Walking around for hours and hours only to see a few sets and therefore manage a few approaches.

 

[isildur1]

That's interesting that you daygame in Cambridge. My city is also the same type of city, a small university city. I notice as soon as the uni students leave, it's desolate. Just a few chavy local girls and that's about it.

I went on a big pre Christmas push last year and collected 8 phone numbers, all bar 1 very average local girl were uni students. They all flaked but that's a different story.

Since the uni's have broken up for summer, I've had nothing.

As for why I see daygame as a chore, it's literally what I described in this thread. Walking around for hours and hours only to see a few sets and therefore manage a few approaches.

it's like saying telesales doesn't work if you only call 5 numbers -you need volume in sales which is very similar to daygame if you don't have that you will struggle

i don't daygame in cambridge i did 1 day on a weekend trip daygaming there and i ran into obvious problems, it's certainly not somewhere i'd like to game in longterm

if the volume is low it's hardest for even the most advance daygamers to make the most of it - i've never gotten a daygame lay in a city sub 4 mil population - i managed a few dates in Riga which had 600k - but that was tough too with really low footfall

135k city you're making life really tough for yourself and it's not a fair analyse on daygame itself considering most coaches and succesfull pua's mainly lived in cities with 8 mil population +

99.99 percent of people reading this would struggle to run daygame in a city of 150k population it's really nothing