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Allow Her to Chase You [+Field Report]

fpt2k14

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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This website is based around the whole premise of 'MAKING' women chase you. That mindset itself will kill your game. All you really have to focus on is expressing the qualities that make you a naturally attractive man and ALLOWING her to chase you. Let me elaborate with a field report.

I met this girl at a bar. I was playing a game of beer pong while at the point of black out drunk. I was with one of her sorority sisters. Now pre-selection helped me a lot here. The girl I'm talking about (not her sorority sister I was with) is a solid 9. Very toned legs, great ass, has a 2 pack, exercise science major, you know the drill. These types of girls GREATLY respond to social proof. While at the bar, I was flirting with her sorority sister. But she was being stand-offish and playing hard to get. No big deal. I chatted up this hottie next to me, turns out she had broken up with her boyfriend of 3 years, was kind of down and her whole demeanor said TAKE ME HOME NOW. Our heads were getting closer, my voice was getting deeper and slower and my eyelids were getting droopy. I was about to go to town on this bitch.

Plot twist. The 'standoff-ish girl' had been watching me this whole time as she was playing hard to get. She came up behind me several times and was visibly upset (the girl with the ex-boyfriend told me) so she goes ahead and pulls me away from the chick, slams me on the wall and starts making out with me. Cool. I look to the side and the other girl storms off mad, the girl whom this field report is focusing on takes note of this shitstorm. Onward.

A week later, my buddy and I are chilling. About to go the library to cheat on some tests, and we run into said girl. My friend is good friends with her (he's actually trying to hook up with her but she friend-zoned him hard). He leaves, and lets us alone. I was doing my test so I largely ignored her. As form of compliance tests I had her help me with some problems which gladly she did so and then some. When I was done, I made some small-talk with her but she was being very boring so I left her. We were supposed to hang out later as a group anyways so no biggie.

Here's where it begins. We were hanging out with some 6's and 7's of which I had no interest in so I got higher than an elephant's balls and drunk as tits. I'm not in a very coherent state when she arrives. I'm sitting by the music managing the songs. (I'm busting out some mean jamz). I notice that she constantly keeps looking at me, and gives me a quizzical look while being playful when we lock eyes. Here's where social acuity plays in, gentlemen. Even while in an absolutely trashed and inebriate state, I can play the game. I noticed whenever she'd walk by me, our bodies would lightly touch and it would linger. I'd take her hand to help her through and she would literally hold my hand for the longest time. We played beer pong and we won 4 games in a row. On the last game we lost, and one of my brothers starts doing a silly victory dance and I'm just standing there taking it all in. Meanwhile, she's looking at me, expectantly. I look at her, take a step back and lean on the wall. She comes and gives me a hug. Puts her head on my chest, and just lingers. Looks at me and goes 'sorry :('. I just smile, mess her hair up and walk away. Girls are so cute and silly.

I walk around the house. She follows me very carefully. Watching out for me and making sure it doesn't seem creepy. She would sneak a hug whenever she could. I stepped outside and she literally PULLED me inside against my will. We would get really close, I'd bite my lip while looking at her eyes and then push her away and tell her to stop being silly. She was chasing me the whole time. All I really did was play with the music, and lean against the wall with a very innocent -childlike face. Like when a kid does something bad and he knows it. She gives me a ride to eat, takes my number and texts me the next morning. All in her own effort. CAKE CAKE CAKE CAKE.

Now, 6 months ago. The scenario might've looked a LOT more different. I would've gamed her. I wouldn't have given her the space or time to chase and she would have ended up with weak attraction or none at all.

Here are few examples of allowing a girl to chase you:

While in conversation and she hooks, (that means she wants to stay there and talk to you) purposely kill the thread of conversation and just stand there. LET HER assume the burden and continue the conversation.
When making plans to meet up, say something like, 'hey thursday I got so and so going on, thought it might be cool if you came along, down?' or something along those lines.
Tease her until she cannot hold anymore and MAKE her take action. (For example get really close to her face, as if you're about to make out and let her kiss you. If she doesn't, pull away and go talk to some other bitch.)

To pull this off, you have to consciously work on removing all neediness from inside you. Remove all agendas and expectancies. I will post on this later, but let it sink in.
 
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