Aloofness from her: How can I tell if it's Auto-Rejection or She feels superior

[andersen09]

From reading the articles and from my experience, she's either aloof because she's in auto-rejection or she thinks my value is too low.

What are some ways to gauge her reasonings for aloofness?

For example, one thing that's worked for me is to compliment her about something specific. In my acting class, there was a girl that was stand-off ish with me from the beginning, but my guts told me she was little intimidated by me.

So when she performed an act, I simply just complimented her about a specific acting she did.

Me: Compliment X
Her: Really?! Thank you I'm glad you like it.
(conversation continues)

What I got from here was that, she was afraid of rejection from me for some reason and she was protecting her ego.

This works well for scenarios where I will run into her consistently, but what are some ways you guys gauge her reasonings for aloofness if you're just meeting her out and about?

Let me know your perspectives.

 

[Regal Tiger]

Re: Aloofness from her: How can I tell if it's Auto-Rejection or She feels super

https://www.girlschase.com/content/being ... rning-them

Chase has talked about that in one of his articles. In it he goes over what the difference is between a girl that sees you as no value vs too high value (or auto rejection vs low value).

Here's a copy/paste of that part in the article (more in the article):

How do you read attainability? You look for:

Aloofness: if women are acting distant and uninterested to you.
Compliance: if women are complying when you ask for investment.
Enthusiasm: if women are acting excited and interested to be talking to you.
Rudeness: if women are acting spiteful and catty toward you.

If you need to remember those when you're out meeting women, just think "ACER" - aloofness, compliance, enthusiasm, rudeness.

Aloofness is bad (you want less of it), compliance is good (you want more of it), enthusiasm is good (you want more of it), and rudeness is bad (you want less of it).

How do you know where your attainability falls with any given girl? Use ACER. If a girl is:

Aloof +
Compliant -
Enthusiastic -
Rude +
... she's in auto-rejection or close to it, and you seem unattainable.

If she's:

Aloof -
Compliant -
Enthusiastic -
Rude -
... you're in "no challenge" land and in real danger of entering the friend zone.

If she's:

Aloof -
Compliant +
Enthusiastic +
Rude -
... you're exactly where you need to be with her, where she's neither aloof nor rude, but IS both compliant and enthusiastic about being with you and talking with you.