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Aloofness from 'hotter' girls yet 'Excited Attraction' from lower girls

GCCSej

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I've been dealing with this for awhile now.
I'm currently attending college.

When I dress fashionably, (Cool & Stylish) I get a mix of reaction from girls all the time that confuses me.

A. The prettier ones (Natural Beauty), they act aloof and distant towards me in the beginning. (Not indifferent) But she has no problem talking to guys who are dressed a bit weird.
B. The semi cute ones, (Uglier than the natural beauties), they act naturally excited and flirty with me from the get go.

My question is this.

https://www.girlschase.com/content/bein ... rning-them

According to this article, when a girl is ALOOF + and RUDE +, she's close to auto-rejection because my attainability is low. Meaning, I seem like I'm out of her reach.
Yet when she's compliant and happy, I seem like I'm within her reach.

But isn't this backwards?

Aren't the more beautiful women supposed to be more compliant and happy because they're usually more confident?
And the 'cuter' girls should be the one to be on auto-rejection?

Can anyone give me some clarity?
 

Fluxcapacitor

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Sup dude! theres a few reasons this can be happening and its hard to say from ya post but am gonna throw some stuff ya way an let ya see.

Firstly cool & stylish would depend on ya circle, am a bit different and into the rock/metal stuff so a don't fit ya stereotypical cool and stylish but a look cool and stylish for my genre an niche. If this is the stereotype the girls like then am cool an stylish, if its not a don't fit. If ya dressing stereotypically cool and stylish with the trendy haircut but she likes the alternative dude ya in the wrong clothing for her. If she has no issue talking to the weird dressed people that might just be her thing? Aloof and distant is what ya get

The semi cute ones ya appealing to cause its the trend that they like.

A bitter pill to swallow is other fundamental might be of, the cool look might elevate ya enough for the semi cute one but not the hot chick cause ya posture sucks and ya vibe is weak. Not necesarily, but it could be..... Maybe bad past precedent that shes holding that ya a loser so ya better elevate ya social proof.

sometimes the ugly duckling doesnt notice ya out of her league an will pursue anyway, some ugly people guys an girls alike can have a total different self esteem than what ya would expect. Same can be said for hot chick, if she has low self esteem she'll auto reject ya faster than anything to make not getting ya easier. Ya know how ya can talk yaself out of approaching a hot girl cause she was stuck up or woud have had a boyfriend...yah chicks do that to dude!

beautiful women arnt always more confident or she doesnt view ya as dominant enough to be comliant. Ya can turn auto rejection around though and sometimes ya have to make changes to ya attainability

If ya have anything else with this let me know dude!
 
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