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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Note: This lay report happened a few weeks back.

What's up guys. It's been a crazy couple of weeks since my first field report. I've laid 5 girls since then including the one I am going to talk about in this report. It's been a fun time but I am glad it has winded down. When you really get rolling a lot of other things in life tend to take a back seat, so it feels good to be able to chill and reflect. I'd say an important lesson I've learned is that the emotional high can only last so long. Everything is cool in the moment, but then it fades away and life goes on. Needless to say, laying more girls than I ever have in that short of a time isn't as cool as I thought it would be. It was great to get ass every few days, but I wasn't ready for an overload like that. Also, I've learned my sex drive isn't nearly as high as some of these girls. I don't need to be fucking every day lol. On to the report...

I was back in my college town for the weekend visiting family friends and we all ended up going out downtown early in the night on a Saturday. Now, most of the people I was hanging out with were older than me with kids, so they weren't going to be staying out that late. I decided to have some fun on Tinder and see if I could meet a chick that night. I knew that I was going to be the last man standing that night so having a chick to meet up with after everyone went home would be fun. On top of that, the bars are only open until 1 AM around this area, so the night tends to end quicker than I am used to.

I don't have to swipe very long before matches start rolling in. I immediately attack and start sending away messages. Eventually, I end up landing a prospect that seems promising, she agrees to give me her number and from then on it's a game of "where are you gonna be tonight". A quick side note, at the one bar we were at, I did end up approaching a few chicks. This didn't really pan out though. This chick proceeds to tell me that she is going to be going out in collegetown, which is a ways away from where I am at. I keep talking to her throughout the night, and when everyone else is either too drunk or ready to go home, i decide then and there that i was going to walk to where she was. It was about midnight at this time and i was trying to make the night memorable.

I ended up walking through to a more popping area of downtown where there is a slew of bars that are prime with college girls. Coincidentally, the bar i was standing next to ended up being the bar this chick was at! So I didn't have to walk all the way up to college town after all. I tell her to find me on the dance floor. By this time, I am heavily buzzed, more so than i wanted to be. The music was blasting, and the dance floor was packed with pussy. I immediately start navigating around the bar, and soon enough on to the dance floor. I end up seeing a cute red head with a few of her friends. I was in a fun mood and was looking for a dance partner, its been a while since i got down on the dance floor.

I shoot her a glance, and open up to a smile. I then proceed to stick my hand out and she happily obliges and grabs it. For the next half hour or so, me and this girl were tearing up the dance floor just having a good time. I kept it really light the whole time... telling her how we are great dance partners, and how sexy she looks. Just little things to spike her emotion while dancing. Once the bar dies down, I ask her if she goes to X college. She says she does, and then tells me she is a Junior. I then tell her that I am an alumni, and i graduated 4 years earlier and was only in town for the weekend. She seemed kind of sad, and gave a whiny spiel. Quick note, i wasn't really trying to bag this chick, i thought she was cute, but i was more so just out to have fun at that point and get some dancing in before the bar closed. However, this girl ended up pulling me! She was like, "let's go".

We remained hand in hand for the remainder of the walk. She quickly told me that we were not "going all the way tonight". I pretty much remained raw as fuck and told her i "honestly didn't care and said that I wasn't a horny college dude out looking to get mine, i was just having a good time with her and had fun dancing, but of course i am a dude so of course the thought had run through my mind". This was coming from sheer outcome independence... I sort of knew deep down that this girl wanted something but I played it in the way that made it seem like I was a "nice" guy. She pretty much ate this up and her attraction for me got even higher. As we continued to walk, it was more or less playful banter. I kept teasing her and saying that I was cool with just making out and other silly things lol.

We finally get back to her apt and her two roommates are standing in the kitchen. It was so funny because i was probably about 5 ft behind her so her friends see her and they look all happy, and then I come through the door and they looked kind of shocked haha. It was priceless. Redhead quickly introduces me as "the older guy". The chicks are pretty much typical silly drunk college girls. We all chat for a few minutes and then the one friend tells red head that she should "take me upstairs and show me around". Thanks girl! chick was helping me out hahaha.

We get to her room and from then on it was pretty much game on. Her body was soooo tight. I did get a little resistance with sex... but after I warmed her up some more she pretty much told me to put a condom on and get to work :)


This field report probably didn't follow a lot of what is preached here on girl chase. More so because i wasn't in "game" mode. I was out to have fun. Not to hook a chick and run my process. I think my overall vibe just carried me through with this one. I wasn't a typical drunk college dude that doesn't know how to handle women, but that was the environment i was in. I just played it calm and cool and genuinely just had fun with the girl. I also didn't care if I laid her either. I think she sensed this, on top of the fact that she was sexually attracted to me, and I totally framed it as i was the one that didn't want anything from her.
 

Dern

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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wow... it was all your mindset that carried you through...

the "I don't care about getting laid, I'm just out to have fun" mindset.

it's easy to start the night off thinking like that, but harder to maintain it after you've been rejected a bunch

so props to you
 
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