Always Aim for the Most Beautiful Girl

[AsianPersuasion]

If there was one rookie mistake I wish I would have fixed sooner this summer, it would be not aiming for the most beautiful girls. If I could give my past self one tip of advice, I'd tell myself how much of a fool I was for thinking the "okay" girls would be easier to pick up than the ones than the ones that looked like babes. This couldn't be farther from the truth.

Beautiful girls are actually EASIER to interact with, and are going to be ten times more open to you. They expend tremendous amounts of effort to look good from eating right and exercising to doing hair and makeup. When a person spends that much effort on one thing, they love knowing their effort didn't go unnoticed. They feel entitled to a compliment, and when a random stranger gives it to them, they open up incredibly fast!

Kind of attractive girls... not so much. I don't know why they insist on making their dating options more scarce than they already are, but they are far less receptive of compliments... Either it's a confidence issue that makes it so they think you've got some other intention for complimenting them, or they can tell the compliment isn't as sincere as it should be. I don't know which one it is, but it's a problem I'm not willing to expend the effort to get around.

So whether you just want to learn, or you want to find a dating partner, always go for the more beautiful girls, and don't settle. They'll be far more open to you, far more fun, and you will learn from them much faster.

 

[Franco]

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AP,

Good advice here. Once you start approaching a number of women, you start to notice how the more attractive girls actually are more attractive, both inside AND out. Occasionally you'll encounter an attractive girl who has a stick up her butt, but it's more likely a result of a bad day or a bad week -- either way, you should treat it that way instead of assuming she's just cold.

The attractive girls have much more social experience, and when you're a sexy guy that gives a sincere compliment, they will open up to you and return the favor!

This is a great lesson to learn early on.

Cheers,

Franco

 

[Marty]

Hey AsianPersuasion,

Fantastic post. I came to the same conclusion a while ago, independently. Only about a month into day game I realized there was a sort of "holy triangle" between beautiful women; direct openers; and sincerity (what Chase delights in calling "genuine interest"). Pick any two, and the third becomes unavoidable.

-Marty

 

[PinotNoir]

Yes, good point.

Also, other people may not see her as attractive. For example, I think Natalie Portman and Kirsten Dunst are hot; my friends think they're ugly and prefer other actresses/celebrities. Just because you think a girl is smokin' and probably gets approached all the time, doesn't make it true. Also, a lot of guys may just go for her friends because they think she's out of his league. Don't buy into the crap. If you think a girl is hot, approach her. Simple.

 

[Marty]

Pinot Noir, great 2 points here about personal preference as well as going where there's less competition as weaker men have auto-rejected.

I'm with you on Portman. Oh boy... As further illustration, I really like Rosamund Pike and adore Kate Beckinsale; I've never knowingly met anyone who shares my preference, though.