Drama Am I Being A Dick???

[LatinL0v3RB0y]

I have been with my main for 2.5 years now. Since the beginning she new I was not the serious type of guy and I will always have my occasional girls on the side, though lately my FB have gone MIA and I have a feeling my main has noticed this. Well the issue is that even though when it comes to her demands I look the other way and always manage to deviate the subject. She has her own place and so do I but lately she has been pushing for us to live together. I am a fan of my personal space and freedom but lately I have realized that I dont know if in a way I should start pushing her away. I care deeply for her but unfortunately its not that strong to make me want to live with her. We have a strong connection and all but I know for a fact that I will never be mono and this is something I know its killing her. Im not sure how to even begin since I know for a fact this girl truly loves me and it will break her heart. How do you even begin the check out process??? Has anyone gone through this or going through this and if so, what dis you do or how dis you do it without causing major aches.

 

[Stonefire]

I'm currently going through this, two years strong and not interested in anything serious with her. I made that clear from the onset and she was cool with that, yet we got closer somehow. I'm a really good, kind and very supportive guy (lol) and because of that, breaking up with woman has really been a mess for me in the past. I've learnt holding on for fear of hurting your partner will just make it worse. But my girl has been having health issues and I've been waiting for her to get better before I sit her down. She wants more and I can't give it to her

 

[BigPapa]

Well , I would just be supportive towards her after the brake up and reframe the whole relationship towards just friends . But you also need to be ok with that , otherwise you will mess up with her head , which is a no no .

If you can not do the reframe and stick to it , then just go Houdini . She will be super sad for a couple of months, but she will land in her feet

 

[Lover]

After my last breakup, I think I will be the one to break up with a girl that is pushing for more when I don't want more. Because she will inevitably get hurt. And the longer you wait, the more she will get hurt. Stop it once you know your goals are not aligned. Less headache for both of you, and she can move on faster and hopefully with more respect for you.