Am I the only one who absolutely hates..

[MisterX]

night clubs?

I feel like 95% of articles + almost all the posters on GC are oriented towards night clubs.

All the guys I know who are even kinda good with girls ALWAYS and only get with girls from clubs.

Am the only guy I know who has results day gaming. I mean 1000000% of the girls I've been with were due to day game. And I do get good results (been with 15-20 girls the past year). But never in my life have I has a good night in a club. I can smash during the day, while all the other guys(even my seducer friends) piss themselves with fear and lack of balls. But then I go to a club and I get rejected or outcompeted by those same kinds of guys who would never ever talk to a girl during the day and without alcohol. If my life depends on it I can't get a girl in a club.

So I've really started hating clubs - honestly if there was a party of Victorias Secret models or if my life depended on it - I would never go into a club again. Or if I go there with friends to celebrate something I would never approach a girl. If one comes over and approaches me I'd pick up the ball but nothing else.


Not sure why that is. I mean I am really good and confident with day game(I'm not perfect but am miles ahead of any guy I know or those I don't know) but I can't for the life of me get a girl in a club.
I understand the other way around - a guy good at clubs can't do it during the day. But day game is scarier and harder and I can do it but at night when the girls are drunk and there to meet guys - nada.


Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I never have fun at a club. I always hate the music, (I lice rock/metal/dubstep). So it's really boring for me at clubs and even with friends I usually bail 1-2 hours after getting there cause I can't take it. Maybe it's because I'm not the flashy (look at me bitches I'm the mothefucking pimp, SWAG KING!!!) kind of guy. I'm more relaxed and slow moving and following the law of least effort (maybe cause I'm lazy and don't want to waste movement). And honestly what I see here (cause I do lots of looking around) is that the guys that get results are the loud, crazy, party guys. The ones that dance like crazy, get loud, scream, etc.




I want to hear what your experience is. Btw if you don't know I'm 22 and approach girls 16-24 years old.


- X

 

[Rage]

Hey Mister X,

I feel you, I'm the same way; I'm not quite that attractive in the face (enough to get spotted repeat times by girls in a crowded club) and am shit at dancing too and have done well with daygame, but shit with night game. Part of what that is is that (Chase wrote about this somewhere on the site) girls dress up more and go out expecting to meet and run into guys and expecting to be the prize that the guys have got to work to try and get.

I think something that is relevant and pretty insightful too is what Drexel covered here viewtopic.php?f=2&t=8390&p=39752#p39752 which is that you kind of get two types of guys who become "players". You get the guys that cold approach a ton and get lots of mechanically driven sets like that (maybe using lines too) and then just see, approach, on to the next one in that fashion.

Then there are the guys that focus on fundamentals more and girls already like quite a bit and they'll do a few approaches and get the girl and go out and take her home etc.; these guys are the textbook "naturals".

I think guys that are more guy 1 are cool going to clubs and nightgame and trying to do lots of approaches and stuff (e.g. neil strauss from the game, mystery, RSD guys etc.); guys that are more guy 2 aren't as into the raging nightclubs it seems (e.g. Ricardus, or several of the rank 4 board members) and like daygame. I'm more of a guy 2.

This would be a theory of mine and perhaps a contributing factor