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I was talking with the girl last night and something became clear to me which is surely true for all girls. Despite being a very wild girl (in the past at least) they haave an image in their minds of being "good girls". This is so true that she even says that if she watched herself having sex she would feel really bad and be ashamed! LMR is purely a result of strong social conditioning - first night sex doesn't fit into her image of her self no matter what the truth is. How can we use this? I think the only thing that can be done is to get her out of the logical state of mind so she can stop worrying about that - or it can literally be traumatising for her!- that should be the focus of the whole date - HOW DO WE DO THAT - that is the important question here!
Discuss..........
Discuss..........