What's up guys. This report is from Friday night. My friend was in the area with his GF and texted me to see if I wanted to go out that night. His bro recently moved to the city for a job and he was living in my area. I ended up meeting them at his bro's apt and chilled out there for a while and drank some beer. The lineup for the night was me, my friend, his GF, brother and about 4-5 of his college friends.
We ended up staying at the first bar we went to most of the night. There were a lot of pretty looking girls. I didn't really approach many girls here, as I was mainly just having fun talking to my friend and his GF. I was definitely getting some looks and approach invitations. It's funny how much more aware I am these days when it comes to those things.
Anyway, I ended up being a wingman for my friends brother on a few instances. There was this one chick in a group of 3 that he had his eye on. We were trying to instill confidence in him all night, he is rather shy and fears rejection of talking to girls, plus... he was already drunk. Nonetheless, I sent him to the deep end and had him approach the group of 3. Soon after I catch him looking my way and waving me over. I get my game face on and heed the call. He is in way over his head and as I soon as I approach I introduce myself and get all the girls names. I would describe this interaction as mostly neutral. I wasn't really feeling any of the girls either. Nonetheless, I ask some basic questions about how there night is going and how they know each other. I get them talking but I lose interest quickly. I wasn't sure how to get my friend involved and pretty much ejected after about 5 mins lol.
After this my friend and his GF leave and we head to another bar close by. I'm left with my friends brother and his friends. The next bar I was planning to take a more proactive approach to meeting girls. As soon as we get there I see two girls at the juke box. I move swiftly over to them and tell them to play something good, like taylor swift lol. The one girl says she likes heavy music but I noticed she started looking for Taylor Swift. Either way after they pick a song they abruptly leave and go to another part of the bar. At this point, I see my friends brother took some initiative and went to talk to this really cute blonde at the bar. It looked like he was holding his own so I let him do his thing. His friends were standing by themselves so i took this opportunity to head to the bar.
I notice two girls walking to the bar at this precise moment, I time my walk and we approach the bar pretty much at the same time. I was actually interested in the black girl but her friend was more eager to talk to me. I think all I said was "hi", and the girl immediately said she loved my hair. I ended up sitting with them at the bar for 30 mins or so. The black girl pretty much let us do our thing, she seemed in a bad mood or something. I tried to get her involved a little in the beginning, but she seemed content just watching the TV and letting her friend talk to me. The conversation flowed well, and we touched on a bunch of different topics. I through in some touches and intense eye contact. Also, there was a 15 dollar minimum for credit cards so I bought her drink.
At some point in the convo I was sprinkling in some logistics questions, asking her where she lived and how she's getting home. They were going to take a cab back to her apt. At this point I was trying to figure out how I could get her to stay with me and leave her friend. either way I never got to that point. eventually she said they were gonna leave and at this point I was gonna go for the number but she beat me to it! I end up making sure I got her number and not the other way around. I send her a smiley face immediately so she has my number and bid my farewell.
After this, I notice the group I was with talking to two girls. They are both cute but the taller one is really sexy. She has red/purple lipstick and it looks delicious
I immediately approach and both girls eyes gravitate towards me. I could tell my presence was felt and they both seemed interested. I immediately stick my hand out and introduce myself to the tall girl with the lipstick. At this point, I am fucking tired and after having a long convo with the previous girl, ramp up the sexual vibe and go for the kill. I ask her where her boyfriend is and she playfully says she doesn't have one and then asks why. I brush this off and I tell her I like her lipstick and it is quiet distracting. I am within two inches of her face when I say this. I look down quick after saying this, then look back at her eyes and smile. I forgot what she said after this but it was all positive. I quickly take her hand and spin her around, I wanted to check out that ass. She obliges willingly, and I slowly twirl her around. After this I ask her if she lives around here. Shortly after this her friend interrupts us and this other dude came over as well that they know. It sort of threw off the vibe and after that I never really recovered. Even though she was receptive and complying with me, I didnt feel like I "hooked" her yet. She eventually went to the bar with her friend. At this point it was almost 3 AM and i was dead tired.
As I get back to my apt, I notice I received a text from the girl I got the number from. She was basically like, "hey, I just got home. whats up!" So my immediate reaction is damn, does this girl wanna fuck right now?? She lived like 20 mins away walking distance, and i was dead ass tired. quick note, I never told her where I lived. So i knew this in my head, but she didn't. I was debating texting her back but I eventualy said, "hey, I just got home myself, you are still on my mind". She replied shortly after saying "Oh yeah, I hope that's a good thing ". Now, I knew I was in a little dilemma, I should of just let the text go even if she did want sex, because I was too tired and drunk to try and meet back up. Either way, I sent the following text...
"I enjoyed our convo and didn't want you to leave."
Now, it took me like 10 mins to respond, so she might have passed out, but after sending it I don't know if it was the best thing to say. She never did reply. Reflecting back, I guess it could be interpreted as kind of needy, and that's how I fear she took it.
So the next day, I knew I didn't wanna wait to text her again. She seemed really into me and I wanted to keep the ball rolling. I texted her around 5 pm... "hey so whats your schedule like? we should get together again sometime soon"
No response.
I think I might of been too forward, or she was already turned off from the text sent her before that. Or she cooled off from me the next day.
Any thoughts?
We ended up staying at the first bar we went to most of the night. There were a lot of pretty looking girls. I didn't really approach many girls here, as I was mainly just having fun talking to my friend and his GF. I was definitely getting some looks and approach invitations. It's funny how much more aware I am these days when it comes to those things.
Anyway, I ended up being a wingman for my friends brother on a few instances. There was this one chick in a group of 3 that he had his eye on. We were trying to instill confidence in him all night, he is rather shy and fears rejection of talking to girls, plus... he was already drunk. Nonetheless, I sent him to the deep end and had him approach the group of 3. Soon after I catch him looking my way and waving me over. I get my game face on and heed the call. He is in way over his head and as I soon as I approach I introduce myself and get all the girls names. I would describe this interaction as mostly neutral. I wasn't really feeling any of the girls either. Nonetheless, I ask some basic questions about how there night is going and how they know each other. I get them talking but I lose interest quickly. I wasn't sure how to get my friend involved and pretty much ejected after about 5 mins lol.
After this my friend and his GF leave and we head to another bar close by. I'm left with my friends brother and his friends. The next bar I was planning to take a more proactive approach to meeting girls. As soon as we get there I see two girls at the juke box. I move swiftly over to them and tell them to play something good, like taylor swift lol. The one girl says she likes heavy music but I noticed she started looking for Taylor Swift. Either way after they pick a song they abruptly leave and go to another part of the bar. At this point, I see my friends brother took some initiative and went to talk to this really cute blonde at the bar. It looked like he was holding his own so I let him do his thing. His friends were standing by themselves so i took this opportunity to head to the bar.
I notice two girls walking to the bar at this precise moment, I time my walk and we approach the bar pretty much at the same time. I was actually interested in the black girl but her friend was more eager to talk to me. I think all I said was "hi", and the girl immediately said she loved my hair. I ended up sitting with them at the bar for 30 mins or so. The black girl pretty much let us do our thing, she seemed in a bad mood or something. I tried to get her involved a little in the beginning, but she seemed content just watching the TV and letting her friend talk to me. The conversation flowed well, and we touched on a bunch of different topics. I through in some touches and intense eye contact. Also, there was a 15 dollar minimum for credit cards so I bought her drink.
At some point in the convo I was sprinkling in some logistics questions, asking her where she lived and how she's getting home. They were going to take a cab back to her apt. At this point I was trying to figure out how I could get her to stay with me and leave her friend. either way I never got to that point. eventually she said they were gonna leave and at this point I was gonna go for the number but she beat me to it! I end up making sure I got her number and not the other way around. I send her a smiley face immediately so she has my number and bid my farewell.
After this, I notice the group I was with talking to two girls. They are both cute but the taller one is really sexy. She has red/purple lipstick and it looks delicious
I immediately approach and both girls eyes gravitate towards me. I could tell my presence was felt and they both seemed interested. I immediately stick my hand out and introduce myself to the tall girl with the lipstick. At this point, I am fucking tired and after having a long convo with the previous girl, ramp up the sexual vibe and go for the kill. I ask her where her boyfriend is and she playfully says she doesn't have one and then asks why. I brush this off and I tell her I like her lipstick and it is quiet distracting. I am within two inches of her face when I say this. I look down quick after saying this, then look back at her eyes and smile. I forgot what she said after this but it was all positive. I quickly take her hand and spin her around, I wanted to check out that ass. She obliges willingly, and I slowly twirl her around. After this I ask her if she lives around here. Shortly after this her friend interrupts us and this other dude came over as well that they know. It sort of threw off the vibe and after that I never really recovered. Even though she was receptive and complying with me, I didnt feel like I "hooked" her yet. She eventually went to the bar with her friend. At this point it was almost 3 AM and i was dead tired. As I get back to my apt, I notice I received a text from the girl I got the number from. She was basically like, "hey, I just got home. whats up!" So my immediate reaction is damn, does this girl wanna fuck right now?? She lived like 20 mins away walking distance, and i was dead ass tired. quick note, I never told her where I lived. So i knew this in my head, but she didn't. I was debating texting her back but I eventualy said, "hey, I just got home myself, you are still on my mind
". She replied shortly after saying "Oh yeah, I hope that's a good thing ". Now, I knew I was in a little dilemma, I should of just let the text go even if she did want sex, because I was too tired and drunk to try and meet back up. Either way, I sent the following text..."I enjoyed our convo and didn't want you to leave."
Now, it took me like 10 mins to respond, so she might have passed out, but after sending it I don't know if it was the best thing to say. She never did reply. Reflecting back, I guess it could be interpreted as kind of needy, and that's how I fear she took it.
So the next day, I knew I didn't wanna wait to text her again. She seemed really into me and I wanted to keep the ball rolling. I texted her around 5 pm... "hey so whats your schedule like? we should get together again sometime soon
"No response.
I think I might of been too forward, or she was already turned off from the text sent her before that. Or she cooled off from me the next day.
Any thoughts?
