Anti-Social Behavior

[BarryS1]

I just noticed an unusual side-effect after completing the newbie assignment 4 weeks ago. My day and night game schedule fits my life so well, I do not require socializing with anyone else to be satisfied. In other words, the only human interaction I get besides school, work, and home is pickup. Chase talked about having a similar lifestyle of work, sleep, and pickup in https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-make-friends-master-key-new-friendships. This lifestyle is the MOST fun I have ever had and do not feel the need to fix it yet. Perhaps there will be a time when I got bored of JUST pickup.

Schedule last 4 weeks:

M-Th 500pm daygame at shopping centers for 30min.

F Night going to lounges and bars by myself.

I have not hung out with any friends for two months and have no need to start again. However, I am NOWHERE near possessing an abundance mentality and still think about the last girl who friendzoned me 8 months ago.

Anyone else experience this starting off?

 

[Estate]

Personally, I'd advice staying in touch with friends.
Sure, when starting, you can go head first and just make this your life until you are really good at it.

But having said that, there is no substitute for actual social interaction.

Pickup has a weird way of making guys... well... weird.
Remember, the whole world does not practice pickup, you need a balanced like. Don't become one of "those guys".

 

[BarryS1]

Pickup has a weird way of making guys... well... weird. Remember, the whole world does not practice pickup, you need a balanced like. Don't become one of "those guys".

Besides the one date two weeks ago, other interactions with girls in daygame last about 2 min. Having enough content to get a conversation rolling past that time represents a weakness for me. I suppose that's where the socializing with friends come in, maintaining depth in conversation. Skills for being charming in conversation will come in time, but I cannot let it slip. Nice pointer!

 

[Estate]

You gotta remember too...

If your whole life is just pickup... what do you actually talk to girls about? What do you do? What is your life? What are your interests? Have a real life to make yourself attractive!
Besides, rolling with a social scene makes game SO much easier... guys just try to stack the odds against themselves so much it's frustrating to see.

Of course, go and do some solo game, it will REALLY help you get good. Just don't make it your LIFE.