This ones gonna be a short one.
Background: My wingman Daniel and I are on the rooftop enjoying the DJ session with some people from our room. We spot these two girls that came out.
Approach 1: 2 swedish girls, closed off a little bit. We go out to smoke a cigarette and casually say hi. Brunette one is really cute, blonde one not so much. I have a more energetic vibe, Daniel has a more laid back vibe. I came in a little bit higher energy, took a hit on some attraction points. Start speaking to both of them, asking them what they do, where they come from. Didn't really single either one out. I usually never do most of the talking, so its something out of my element. Daniel comes off mysterious, so the girls are more interested in him. Brunette takes a liking to Daniel, im not really into the other one. Patio closes upstairs so us 4 move down to the bar downstairs and play some pool. Blonde knows im not really into her, we dont vibe. Daniel makes moves on the brunette, grabs her number, we make moves to go out.
Bar 1: Same bar we always start at, not too busy, we grab a drink, sit down and scope the place.
Approach 2: I go up and approach a blonde in a tight dress who hasn't even seen me, bad approach. Say a direct opener, get a nasty look, try to break the resistance but she isn't laughing. I go back and sit down next to Daniel and shrug it off.
Approach 3: 2 girls that are sitting on the side couch, neither of them are too cute. A fight broke out in the bar like 10 seconds before this approach so I use this excuse to go open and make a comment about the fight. They seem to enjoy me coming up and say hi, we exchange a few pleasantries and then I signal Daniel over. We both talk, move outside to smoke a cigarette, complete social vibe. After deep diving and teasing, all 4 of us know none of us are really feeling it. We say our goodbyes and part ways.
We try to move bars, realize that nothing is really busy, and then go on our way back to the first bar.
Street approach, approach 4: Approach 2 girls just for the fuck of it, direct approach, both lesbian. Not sure if its bs, but most likely true. Doesn't work out lol.
We grab pizza and call it a night.
Lessons learned to apply next time:
-Match energy levels, keep my cool, distanced persona when approaching.
-Don't approach girls that I'm not into
-Don't approach girls without preopening, even though I know this. Its a rejection most of the time.
-Start using the "are you single" opener more, to not give so much validation to girls who have been hit on all night.
-Learn that transition between making the vibe from social to sexual (Still having difficulty with this one so if anyone reading this has some tips for me, it would be much appreciated
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-Be more humble from the outset of an approach and tone up the cockiness by throwing random lines in there. Don't know if this is a good lesson or not, but i've noticed if I'm more cocky from the outset, it makes it seem un-genuine and try hard, and turns girls off.
Background: My wingman Daniel and I are on the rooftop enjoying the DJ session with some people from our room. We spot these two girls that came out.
Approach 1: 2 swedish girls, closed off a little bit. We go out to smoke a cigarette and casually say hi. Brunette one is really cute, blonde one not so much. I have a more energetic vibe, Daniel has a more laid back vibe. I came in a little bit higher energy, took a hit on some attraction points. Start speaking to both of them, asking them what they do, where they come from. Didn't really single either one out. I usually never do most of the talking, so its something out of my element. Daniel comes off mysterious, so the girls are more interested in him. Brunette takes a liking to Daniel, im not really into the other one. Patio closes upstairs so us 4 move down to the bar downstairs and play some pool. Blonde knows im not really into her, we dont vibe. Daniel makes moves on the brunette, grabs her number, we make moves to go out.
Bar 1: Same bar we always start at, not too busy, we grab a drink, sit down and scope the place.
Approach 2: I go up and approach a blonde in a tight dress who hasn't even seen me, bad approach. Say a direct opener, get a nasty look, try to break the resistance but she isn't laughing. I go back and sit down next to Daniel and shrug it off.
Approach 3: 2 girls that are sitting on the side couch, neither of them are too cute. A fight broke out in the bar like 10 seconds before this approach so I use this excuse to go open and make a comment about the fight. They seem to enjoy me coming up and say hi, we exchange a few pleasantries and then I signal Daniel over. We both talk, move outside to smoke a cigarette, complete social vibe. After deep diving and teasing, all 4 of us know none of us are really feeling it. We say our goodbyes and part ways.
We try to move bars, realize that nothing is really busy, and then go on our way back to the first bar.
Street approach, approach 4: Approach 2 girls just for the fuck of it, direct approach, both lesbian. Not sure if its bs, but most likely true. Doesn't work out lol.
We grab pizza and call it a night.
Lessons learned to apply next time:
-Match energy levels, keep my cool, distanced persona when approaching.
-Don't approach girls that I'm not into
-Don't approach girls without preopening, even though I know this. Its a rejection most of the time.
-Start using the "are you single" opener more, to not give so much validation to girls who have been hit on all night.
-Learn that transition between making the vibe from social to sexual (Still having difficulty with this one so if anyone reading this has some tips for me, it would be much appreciated
)-Be more humble from the outset of an approach and tone up the cockiness by throwing random lines in there. Don't know if this is a good lesson or not, but i've noticed if I'm more cocky from the outset, it makes it seem un-genuine and try hard, and turns girls off.
