any advice on dealing with girls that just won't leave you alone? need help!

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

So I previously posted on my last thread about a girl that kept bothering me but I left out some details due to being politically correct. Now in my situation the girl that has been irritating me to the point of picking fights with girls I am interested and pulling the race card saying things like "I bet if I was white you'd say yes", she does have a point since I am not interested in black girls at all but she doesn't really get the message that I am not interested.

And yes in my area I commonly notice girls like this are not attractive, usually from working class backgrounds, and are often black (don't see other races do this, just what I have experience). Now I have told the girl in particular I am not interested but she does not get the message. She keeps irritating me, has even tried to pick a fight with girls I am interested in, commonly pulls the race card when talking to me, and when I ignore her she starts getting touchy with me. This girl is not in any way attractive so I don't even want to be seen near her but she won't leave me alone, she just tries to put on a show for attention.

I am lost, don't know what to do. What would be your advice?

and I am being politically incorrect here but I don't care

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I would have guessed the girl was black from your last thread. Having family in Atlanta I have seen some of this kind of behavior from my own 2 eyes, you almost have to be there yourself to believe it. Think these girls are doing it for attention and chances are you going to a gym in a poor area of the city if that is what is going on. You don't see this with rich black girls, can't even blame on social class though because I don't see it with poor white girls either, just poor black girls for some reason who are young too.

Don't get it myself but black girls are the only kind of girls from my experience that just don't back down after a rejection and keep pursuing you. If she is more "ratchet" (as my black friends say) then she will pick fights with other girls interested in you and constantly try to throw herself at you which is likely the case with the one bothering you, most do not understand how annoying and irritating this is. A lot of it also has to do with the fact that generally speaking, black women aren't that desired by guys of other races so the girls have to make their interests more clear.

Your best bet is to change venue, if they have another gym in your city then go there. As long as you are near her and people that know you two, she will keep on harassing you. If it is a smaller town and city then you will run into her again so try to avoid her and show no interest, ignore her and do your best to pretend that she is not there. Keep a frown on your face to show your displeasure and hope she backs off.

If the above isn't possible then talk to some of her friends and tell them how irritating this is to you. She might be told to back down and leave you alone, one of her friends might intervene the next time she is bothering you or someone might do something to try and stop her. Make it very clear that you are not interested and that she has ruined your life.

Outside of that, you might need to get legal help or someone with authority involved.

 

[StoicMind]

I agree with the post above, just change venue's, but don't save this act of persisting to just black chicks it's across the board but I will admit it's in higher proportions with black women. I was in a similar situation (she was white and Puerto Rican), I had met her at a party and got her number. We talked and eventually went out on a date and we went back to my house, she kept telling me "no sex"even though she apparently wanted it (she was in bra and panties, straddled on top of me), she was trying to make me want her.When she sensed that that didn't work, due to the fact that I didn't call her or text her that much, she began to call me and text me A LOT and whenever we were together she would get super pissed if I touched my phone. After I cut off communication with her she came to my house uninvited, that was the final straw. She was attractive but she was crazy, I told her it was not okay for her to come to my house uninvited, in a very stern almost yelling voice cause I was actually pissed. That kind of crushed her cause in her mind I guess it went from me just playing hard to get to me actually not wanting anything to do with her. If the girl you are avoiding persist even after a change of venue you have to get stern with her.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Stoic:

I hate to be politically incorrect myself but believe me it is just with most black american girls from lower class areas, don't even see this with white girls from lower class areas TBH. Already knew OP was talking about black chicks from his previous thread.

 

[Tim Iron]

Go to another gym, and if she follows you there... make sure you raise your voice at her to leave you alone! It is obvious that the girl is a bit crazy so you might have to be a little harsh to let her know that it is time to give up on your case.