Any chance this girl will file a false rape accusation against me?

[beginner112]

Hi Guys,

Long story short, yesterday I met some girl off tinder, 21 years of age and in college. After talking for a bit, I suggested that she meet me at around 10 pm at my place for drinks. Well, she ends up coming but when I talked to her, she appeared really weird and distant. I would ask her a question and she would respond "I plead the fifth". I am pretty sure she had no drugs and was sober but that there might have been something mental with her. Anyways, I ended up fingering her and after going into her, she then says "I dont want to do that, I can actually report you for rape, but I wont do that." After this, I got really confused and backed down. She then said that she needed to go so I let her leave. Now, I am actually a bit worried she might actually report a false rape accusation. I am also a bit livid that she would even say that kind of thing. My entire impression of her is that she was really weird, which I didn't really start to pick up until I met her. I texted her after to try to obtain a post text, but she didnt respond. Do you guys think I need to be worried about anything here? Thanks.

 

[Drck]

You should be fine, she said no and you stopped. I assume that there was no sex, thus no semen... She went to your place voluntarily, she was probably quite anxious...

Just in case, keep all the texts, print them out, and if something happens don't be a hero, request a lawyer...

 

[ray_zorse]

Write down everything that happened, the conversation, the sequence of events etc. In as much detail as you can remember. Try to give exact time of each thing. Also screengrab the tinder convo. Then you are as prepared as you can possibly be. And next time if she shows any signs of crazy kick her out IMMEDIATELY, you waited too long here. This is how

Her: i can actually report you for rape, i won't do that though
You: you may as well leave now then
Her: wha..?? one minute you're into me, the next minute i have to leave?
You: door's over there. goodbye

And no lol, any court in the land is gonna realize that if she came to your room ALONE at 10pm at night based off a quick tnder convo, she wanted a quick fuck. As long as you backed off your escalation after receiving a hard no, and she doesn't tell outrageous lies you're good man. Anyway, cross bridges when you come to them.
Ray

 

[beginner112]

As long as you backed off your escalation after receiving a hard no, and she doesn't tell outrageous lies you're good man.
Ray

So I forgot to add that after she said the whole thing about how she could report me, I didn't back off 100% right then and there but still made out with her and kinda touched her on the outside of her panties until she said it hurt, which I then stopped. So afterwards I sort of just laid next to her, while intermittently trying to semi-escalate her. The whole time from when she said she could report me to when she actually left was about 20 more minutes (really stupid now thinking back, and that I was a bit drunk). I know I really shouldn't have tried to go after her again especially when she said the psycho thing about rape, but do you think given this extra information I should talk to a lawyer now or am I just being paranoid? In general, every time she said no or something I just backed down. Also, I did record audio for the latter half of our conversation. Thanks for any advice.

 

[ray_zorse]

Mate. Cross bridges when you come to them. It's good you've got audio. For now, do nothing -- indeed my housemate a while ago was in a similar situation and I arranged him a free half hour consultation with a solicitor that my family has used before and who is a top gun. She listened to his concerns, told him that nothing could be done at the present time, and gave him her mobile no. to call her on if any actual accusation ever got made. Unfortunately this did not reassure him and he panicked and gave up his study course and scholarship and went back to his home country, a vast overreaction. Don't be like him. Just chill out and continue with your life. Yes, you feel a tension, but as a high value man you can handle tension. You can go see a lawyer who will likely give you a free consultation, but it's a waste of time and effort. By the way, in the vanishingly unlikely scenario that cops come to the door, say "no comment" to anything they ask you except your name, address etc. This will create major tension and they will try to convince you you are acting guilty. Ignore this and eventually they will give up and leave. If asked to accompany them to the Police Station you may wish to contact a lawyer that point. I would probably just ask them if I am being arrested or charged and tell them I am happy to cooperate with either thing, and otherwise do nothing until arrested or charged (because until that point it is really just a fishing expedition on their part to see if you will make any damaging admissions to support her story, and this is easy to do by mistake -- such as you tell them you kissed her until she said stop, they then start hassling you about exactly how she said stop, and pretty soon you're describing her LMR and basically confessing to rape, you will always be on the defensive in such scenarios). Please read and internalize this advice carefully, I am extremely experienced in such matters having been detained by Police many times.
Ray