Hey guys, as from my last post, I followed the advice and am immediately getting results! Anyways, now I find myself in a scenario where I will be meeting several girls (including the one I'm trying to get) at a group gathering. If you read any last post, it was deemed that she was somewhat unresponsive to my texts, so I did what was recommended and followed with radio silence. Now, it was explained to me that I should get her alone. The thing is there will be other guys there too, and I'm wondering what is the best way to stand out, and be able to socially pull her aside and strike up a conversation. Any recommendations on strategy and helpful advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks guys!
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What Eric says.
Why would you want to play a game of poker with 10 other people on the table, when it's easier to beat them 1 on 1?
But yes there are techniques - by demonstrating Value.
Here 's how:
1) Be a great story teller
- If you're a natural Extrovert who loves to talk, this will work in your favour. You can demonstrate value by telling exotic / funny / interesting / weird stories that will grab everyone's attention. Or you can simply raise interesting questions that is debatable amongst others, you will naturally appear to be more of the host who take on a neutral side while others debate.
2) Magic Tricks
- Magic works well on both guys and girls.
3) Be the funniest guy
- I don't mean be a clown and make a fool out of yourself. But be creative and turn every conversation into a joke - it's a skill.
4) Be Dominant
- Don't go around tooling others, but don't let others push you around or tool you. You have to be the bigger man.
When you're ready to isolate the girl, you simply tell her to come with you, and lead her out.
Why would you want to play a game of poker with 10 other people on the table, when it's easier to beat them 1 on 1?
But yes there are techniques - by demonstrating Value.
Here 's how:
1) Be a great story teller
- If you're a natural Extrovert who loves to talk, this will work in your favour. You can demonstrate value by telling exotic / funny / interesting / weird stories that will grab everyone's attention. Or you can simply raise interesting questions that is debatable amongst others, you will naturally appear to be more of the host who take on a neutral side while others debate.
2) Magic Tricks
- Magic works well on both guys and girls.
3) Be the funniest guy
- I don't mean be a clown and make a fool out of yourself. But be creative and turn every conversation into a joke - it's a skill.
4) Be Dominant
- Don't go around tooling others, but don't let others push you around or tool you. You have to be the bigger man.
When you're ready to isolate the girl, you simply tell her to come with you, and lead her out.
