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I like to ask for help in removing a certain bitterness.
I really have no problems with guy friends befriending my girl friends and they want to do whatever they want. But i have a problem once they upstage me or when they talk to me like they know girls and yet i see them do things that is not congruent with what they say. Friends backbiting just to get the girl. Hurting the girl is another problem, which i have not yet face but i have definitely been there.
To me, it is nonsense. Maybe i am judging, but i want quality friends. I have meet them, and we always have fun, and there's positive vibe. I really do. To me, it is just a turn off if guys say other thing and do otherwise. IT is not that they being hypocrite or anything, because everyone does, but have the self-respect and humility to know yourself.
I want people like that in my life, Positive, and know themselves. As i ascend to the top, to improve myself in all areas of my life, i realize that successful people even go through bitterness because of the people they surround themselves. and once at the top, they are more forgiving.
Are there ways to soothen this?
Zac
I really have no problems with guy friends befriending my girl friends and they want to do whatever they want. But i have a problem once they upstage me or when they talk to me like they know girls and yet i see them do things that is not congruent with what they say. Friends backbiting just to get the girl. Hurting the girl is another problem, which i have not yet face but i have definitely been there.
To me, it is nonsense. Maybe i am judging, but i want quality friends. I have meet them, and we always have fun, and there's positive vibe. I really do. To me, it is just a turn off if guys say other thing and do otherwise. IT is not that they being hypocrite or anything, because everyone does, but have the self-respect and humility to know yourself.
I want people like that in my life, Positive, and know themselves. As i ascend to the top, to improve myself in all areas of my life, i realize that successful people even go through bitterness because of the people they surround themselves. and once at the top, they are more forgiving.
Are there ways to soothen this?
Zac
