Approach Blocks

[H-Two-O]

have no problem at all approaching a girl on her own, but I do have little problem (Anexiety) when approaching a group of girls, still no problem I think I can handle that too.

But I have specific situations where I'm so desperate to make an approach but I CAN NOT. It drives me crazy and I might need some of your innovative ideas Gentlemen. To sum up these situations;

1- A hot chick on her own walking down the street / mall but she is on the phone for long minutes in an intense conversation.

2- At the traffic signal on a busy road with both of our windows roled up (because the air conditioner is ON usually on most times of the year in here).

3- If she is busy interacting with the sales person for almost an hour.

4- The ONLY time I feel I cant approach a girl say in a cafe is when the place is too quiet and there are some hopeless lonley men staring at the poor girl (without doing anything ofcourse) So I feel that it is a little bit embarrasing for her if I approach her in such a situation.

Please help me if you have any slip throughs for such situations. Any ideas, suggestions are welcome indeed.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Once you get to a certain degree of social freedom (less A.A.) you start to get bored with just opening easy girls strolling along with nothing else to do but chat to an attractive stranger.

Sounds like you're either there or close to reaching that point. Once you get to that point it becomes fun to challenge those situations and see how realistic those "hopeless" situations can be.

1. Girl on the Phone- Here just approach as usual and open with "is that call extremely important?" make sure you have a warm and semi playful body language (as if you know your breaking the rules and enjoy being a bit of a rebel). Usually they won't blow you out completely and then you simply tell her to hang up the phone or if your bold/little bit asshole ask to talk to whomever she's talking to and tell that person that the girl in question has just been approached by a sexy stranger and has to go.

2. In the Car- I've heard of guys actually getting out of the car and knocking on the window and having a conversation at a red light for 60 seconds, getting her number, and then chat to her later and get her on a date. Though I don't see why you couldn't roll down your window and make some funny faces at her to roll hers down and then chat her up. Nothing will happen if you try this there is no consequence Though I usually don't do this one because I guess I never really think about it.

3. Busy with sales person- I'm sure there might be some way of doing this but lets face it she's got her hands/mind twisted up and focused on making a purchase you might get a warm reception but most likely are just going to be distracting her from her business (and the salesman's). Though never hurts to test things out... unless you get kicked out of the store forever. lol

4. Girl in quite café- Fuck those guys wishing they had the balls to go talk to her. Fucking be a legend and go make that girls day. She won't be embarrassed and their are ways around that anyway if you feel like that's a huge issue to you.
What I do in those café situations is get my phone out before I approach and write a blank text that says "You're absolutely adorable! Are you single?". Go up to her table and tell her she looks familiar then name a place you frequent often. For me I usually say my college I go to. Depending on how she reacts decide if you want to go all the way through (I usually do because theirs nothing to lose) and say "you look like your good with phones, can you see if mine is working properly?" said with a playful smile. Then slide her your phone with the prewritten text message on it and see what she says. 95% chance she'll be happy you came over to give her a compliment and approach along with the possibility she bites and you get to grab her number or go on an instant date.

Happy approaching H-Two-O

-Rob

 

[Marty]

What I do in those café situations is get my phone out before I approach and write a blank text that says "You're absolutely adorable! Are you single?". ... "you look like your good with phones, can you see if mine is working properly?" said with a playful smile. Then slide her your phone with the prewritten text message on it and see what she says.

That is fucking badass.

 

[Mr.Rob]

What I do in those café situations is get my phone out before I approach and write a blank text that says "You're absolutely adorable! Are you single?". ... "you look like your good with phones, can you see if mine is working properly?" said with a playful smile. Then slide her your phone with the prewritten text message on it and see what she says.

That is fucking badass.

Steal it! You won't

 

[H-Two-O]

Thanks Mr. Rob

Those are great tips, specially with the pre-written text in a quiet busy cafe.

Yes, im very close to the point where approaching tall hot chicks walking alone in a mall or street or a cafe (i.e in an easy set up) does not excite me a bg time - but I still make an advantage of it.

Thanks for the tips..you are great man!!