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Approach Less: 5 Best Ways to Get More Good Numbers

nad_bigger

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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stop feeling sorry for yourself

have you ever struggled with getting good numbers? You are doing a lot of approaches but don’t seem to get any results?

well, boo hoo. it’s almost as if doing the same thing over and over for years and not improving at all is a bad strategy

to lift a certain weight you need muscles of a certain size. to get certain results in seduction you need a certain level of skill

so the most useless thing you can do is to think that your race, your height, your face or anything else is responsible for failures



https://youtu.be/gbX489vQh8k
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

DarkKnight

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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I am not super convinced about mass approaching. For a lot of guys who start out mass approaching can really do some damage because their confidence is yet fragile and can get hurt.

I would say that approaching, but also screening for receptivity goes a long way and is underappreciated. And after a guy has a certain amount of good leads he can make it more challenging for himself if he wants to.

Like a fighter pilot who first goes through multiple simulations before immediately being put in a warzone. I think that allegory goes.

Handling rejection is part willpower but also part past reference experience in order to process and reframe.
 
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