Approaching a girl while parents are close

[sha422]

Oke, I am going to start by the beginning. Who I am? I am 19 year old men who since a young age started doing business(I can tell money doesn't get you girls) and that goes pretty well. Learning from many other people. And doing whatever it takes to get done what needed to be done. I am also into bodybuilding and did build a good fysiek. My confidence is huge in comparing to many years before. Sometimes I think it might be to much(People act different towards me somehow). I do dress good and get a lot of attention when I walk outside. I have absolutely no problem with asking for things I want from other guys.

But now this. I am good at eye contact flirting with girls. And even trigger them to like me instantly sometimes without a word said. Now I see a girl in the gym only she is almost always there with her parents. First I didn't taught about ever approaching her. But now I want to, it looks like almost impossible but she looks me into my eyes like screaming: "Come to me and talk to me". Does anyone have any suggestions/tips? I want it so really bad and I am not even worried about if she possible reject me. Yet I fucked up twice to approach. I am kinda angry at myself

It's so weird because confidence is huge yet this looks impossible. But I am honest that I never had a girlfriend. Due I missed so many signs/chances earlier with just really beautiful girls. I just never want to miss any signs/chances anymore and do whatever I possibly can do to stop missing out on all these girls. It's just crazy looking back that over 50 girls you just met somewhere they liked you and wanted you. But you didn't saw it or did never take action.

Hopefully anyone has some tips

 

[Space]

Welcome to the forum! I guess you are American. (Americans are obsessed with gym culture. I don't say it's bad or something. Just my observation.)

Regarding girls with parents, let me share you my story you may or may not relate to! First, let me get the record straight that I'm a little more hesitant about girls with their fathers. Indeed, some suggest you should entirely skip them.

But girls with their mothers should be less of a problem. So my example might be an easier one, since I got this girl with her mother outside of a bar smoking at night. We start chatting, I introduce myself as usually with a handshake, first to the mother (if I recall the situation correctly), I recognize them as mother and daughter having a fun night out, I show interest to the daughter, if the mother likes you at this point she starts to pimp her daughter to you, which was the case in my situation. The mother said she found me a fine young man. Well, almost. Expect for the girl's boyfriend was inside the bar. So we had a good laugh about the situation and I went on my way.

Maybe I could have pushed the idea forward with my routine I developed since then to use when the girl says she has a boyfriend, but I developed this routine since then. But maybe a girl just don't want to look like a little slut in front of her mother flirting with a man outside the bar while her boyfriend is inside, so I just left them there.

I still remember one other situation with something like a 23-year old model looking girl with her mother in the shopping mall (so no real fears of the mother wanting to protect her too young daughter) back in the summer when I had no clue and I did nothing. Now with my current experiences I could just do the exact same thing (calibrated to the mall from the nightlife situation) as above. Maybe you can relate to my story and adapt it to your situation?

 

[sha422]

Thank you for you response. No I'm Dutch. She is mostly with her father. But they train alone. It's more that they are around and possibly watching.

 

[Space]

Girls with their fathers. I have no idea about this. Let me pass this question to the experts as I'm curious about it, too! Sorry for mistaken you for an American! Truth to be told, most of the time it works as the majority of forum members here are Americans.