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shaneawi

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I'm a graduate student living on a college campus this summer. I was wondering how to approach women who are jogging/running?
 
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Mr.Rob

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Tell the girl to fucking stop it's simple... girls jogging towards you (you want her to be preferably running towards you so you don't have to run fast to catch up with her [law of least effort]) you hold your hand out in a "stop" motion, make eye contact, smile, and say "You! Come here!" or "You! Stop!" she stops and then you deliver whatever opener you were going to use anyway "I like yo booty girl!" haha yeah.

Basically I recommend being dominant here and have fun with it it's really that simple.

-Rob
 

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Mr.Rob said:
Tell the girl to fucking stop it's simple... girls jogging towards you (you want her to be preferably running towards you so you don't have to run fast to catch up with her [law of least effort]) you hold your hand out in a "stop" motion, make eye contact, smile, and say "You! Come here!" or "You! Stop!" she stops and then you deliver whatever opener you were going to use anyway "I like yo booty girl!" haha yeah.

Basically I recommend being dominant here and have fun with it it's really that simple.

-Rob
Agree. You are a veteran here.
 

metomeya

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shaneawi said:
I'm a graduate student living on a college campus this summer. I was wondering how to approach women who are jogging/running?

I've never approach a girl jogging before. But I have read a great deal of success come just running up and jogging with them and then ask, "So where are we going?"

They will usually laugh and you can build the conversation from there. It does take some pretty big balls to do this though.
 

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Tell the girl to fucking stop it's simple... girls jogging towards you (you want her to be preferably running towards you so you don't have to run fast to catch up with her [law of least effort]) you hold your hand out in a "stop" motion, make eye contact, smile, and say "You! Come here!" or "You! Stop!" she stops and then you deliver whatever opener you were going to use anyway "I like yo booty girl!" haha yeah.

Basically I recommend being dominant here and have fun with it it's really that simple.

-Rob

I agree what Mr. Rob said about stopping the girl when she's running towards you. If the girl is really bolting it, hold your hand up longer and "swivel" in place to get eye contact when she looks back.
 

BarryS1

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shaneawi said:
Do they ever get mad by stopping them?

By mad do you mean calling the cops or physically threatening me? Looking at my journal, I haven't had that happen out of the 20 times I've done it. I have gotten blowouts from this approach with the girl saying "oh, thanks" and continuing onward. If you are really worried, try approaching the girls in athletic gear who are walking towards you instead of running. I've had better results approaching girls who are walking towards me instead of running.

Blowouts do happen and approaching girls who are running are no exception :) If you are by a college campus, that's a great opportunity to grow your dating pool. Ross has a great article about approaching hired guns and not knocking out groups of girls because it is an unconventional approach. Even though he talks about hired guns, this definitely applies to our situation.

Most men contend that even when you encounter a very cute hired gun like this, you should just let her go. There are plenty of other women out there, right?

Very true. There are a lot of women out there in the world, and if you fail with one you can always move onto another.

However, every time that you knock out a group of women, your dating pool shrinks. And shrinks. And shrinks. Suddenly, you find yourself with too many specifications and too little options for a relationship – you’re back at square one.

There’s no reason to eliminate these women from being approached that purely stems from the fact that they are working.

Here's the link: https://www.girlschase.com/content/hired-gun-game-5-girls-job-how-approach-them
 

Mr.Rob

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metomeya said:
Ya...sounds pretty disrespectful.

Why do you say that Metomeya? I think it's pretty dominant (which girls like), and as long as you're warm and have the intention of making her life better if even for only a moment, I think it's pretty awesome.

I don't do many approaches of girls jogging but I do a lot of street approaches exactly like this and I get great receptions, and of course some blowouts as well but that's just how it works.

shaneawi said:
Do they ever get mad by stopping them?
Mad? Very unlikely. However there's always the chance that their simply not in the mood (their running after all) and will ignore you or smile and keep going in which case you haven't lost anything. Just remember to smile and be warm and you should be fine.

Besides not everyone in the world can like you anyway, as long as your intentions are good I wouldn't worry about this.
 
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