I know it's not the usual way of looking upon things, but going along with it!!
In one sense you'd think it might make them better, in that they should be better at understanding women, but I really don't know about that. Is it better(in this regard) for boys to grow up with only brothers, and go to an all boys school. Would this mean that these boys will tend to look upon girls as if they're from a different planet? And I thought that looking upon girls that way doesn't help!!!
And you know the way you first think you're in love when you're a teenager, and when you naively see what you want in some pretty girl? Well, would that be more likely to have happened to me if I didn't have sisters.
Sometimes when I'm wondering what my next move with a girl should be, I think about my sister deliberates about guys when she's in the same situation. But that doesn't usually motivate me to make the right decision! I guess not every girl is like my sister... she has sympathy for guys who hit on her, because "you can see that they're making an effort". It isn't many girls that take that point of view! Having grown up with two sisters, I can honestly say I would have preferred a brother. I can't but sometimes look upon them as shallow beings who have the upper hand until they inevitably get fucked, and then come home an emotional wreck.
It's also funny to think that any 'player' I know, either doesn't have sisters, or if they do, that they're not the kind of girls that you'd look upon sexually(for whatever reason). I guess the whole idea of being a player is that you get them when they're at their best, and by the time they're an emotional wreck, someone else has to deal with it. I can't say I know any guy who has it both ways
In one sense you'd think it might make them better, in that they should be better at understanding women, but I really don't know about that. Is it better(in this regard) for boys to grow up with only brothers, and go to an all boys school. Would this mean that these boys will tend to look upon girls as if they're from a different planet? And I thought that looking upon girls that way doesn't help!!!
And you know the way you first think you're in love when you're a teenager, and when you naively see what you want in some pretty girl? Well, would that be more likely to have happened to me if I didn't have sisters.
Sometimes when I'm wondering what my next move with a girl should be, I think about my sister deliberates about guys when she's in the same situation. But that doesn't usually motivate me to make the right decision! I guess not every girl is like my sister... she has sympathy for guys who hit on her, because "you can see that they're making an effort". It isn't many girls that take that point of view! Having grown up with two sisters, I can honestly say I would have preferred a brother. I can't but sometimes look upon them as shallow beings who have the upper hand until they inevitably get fucked, and then come home an emotional wreck.
It's also funny to think that any 'player' I know, either doesn't have sisters, or if they do, that they're not the kind of girls that you'd look upon sexually(for whatever reason). I guess the whole idea of being a player is that you get them when they're at their best, and by the time they're an emotional wreck, someone else has to deal with it. I can't say I know any guy who has it both ways
) grew up around 5 or 6 sisters through his childhood and he's one of the best with women I know and he served as my mentor on GC for quite some time.