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Are there articles that tackle the topic of money when dating and how it makes or break the relationship

seanmagy

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Hi guys, i would love to see a thread somewhat about how women can leave a relationship because you are not spending money on them, whilst them themselves are broke when you are dating them.. How can i or anyone interested in this be able to navigate this...Do you expect the woman to pay some of the times, or you split on outings .

Is it also safe to date women who are having a hard time financially? or is it more safe to date women who are making good money on their own.

i would love to hear some thoughts from you guys and Chase.

N.B I am living in a third world by the way, from Zimbabwe
 

TwoNameGame

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Hi guys, i would love to see a thread somewhat about how women can leave a relationship because you are not spending money on them
Apparently, being poor helps your game. Here are some articles:





How can i or anyone interested in this be able to navigate this...Do you expect the woman to pay some of the times, or you split on outings.
I am not from Zimbabwe, I am from Mexico and live in USA, so apologies for how little I know about where you live. Here are some ideas I can think of.

If money is an issue, then don't go on dates that involve money. Go hiking, have a picnic at a park, go to a nice street with street performers, find free events in your city like festivals, or go dancing/singing/painting whatever she likes that you happen to have things for.

Is it also safe to date women who are having a hard time financially? or is it more safe to date women who are making good money on their own.
Depends on you goal. Do you want sex? It doesn't matter. Do you want a relationship? Then money is safer, but not always a guarantee.

Sometimes, poor women have ambition and you too can work together. Other times, rich women rely on you. Unfortunately, as a Mexican, I must admit that my situation with money is extremely different from yours.

i would love to hear some thoughts from you guys and Chase.
Money is a shortcut, but not always the best path.

I remember an article about how it doesn't matter what you do for a woman; what matters is what she does for you. The important part of this article tells the story of 2 men. One buys an expensive gift that looks beautiful and the girl wants. One man buys a cheap gift with an interesting story based on what the girl likes. Every woman likes diamonds, so it is easy. But if you know what she likes and make it special, that is more seductive.

If you can't afford a nice restaurant, find a cheap restaurant with her favorite meal. If you can't afford a diamond necklace but she likes a certain flower, buy her a flower headband. Put thought, not effort.
 

johndoe

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Hi guys, i would love to see a thread somewhat about how women can leave a relationship because you are not spending money on them, whilst them themselves are broke when you are dating them.. How can i or anyone interested in this be able to navigate this...Do you expect the woman to pay some of the times, or you split on outings .

Is it also safe to date women who are having a hard time financially? or is it more safe to date women who are making good money on their own.

i would love to hear some thoughts from you guys and Chase.

N.B I am living in a third world by the way, from Zimbabwe
Having money doesn't help you get women, but it is a fantastic tool in your belt if you already know how to talk to women. Generally, I find girls from 2nd / 3rd-world countries more conservative, in the sense that showing provider traits (e.g. subtly showing wealth) work much better on them. With girls from first-world countries, that doesn't work as well. You've got to play off ideals (e.g. compatibility, being fun, sexy etc.).

Even so, you won't be hooking up with a girl from a poorer country just by flaunting your wealth. You do still need game -- that is the same all around the world, regardless of culture. But keeping a girl after sleeping with them, having wealth works much better when they're from 2nd / 3rd world countries.

Perhaps that may just be a side effect of the income bracket I belong to. If I had 10 million dollars in the bank, I may be telling you that it works equally as well on 1st world country girls. I'll tell you about it when I get there and push a Lambo around.
 
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