I'm still a newbie when it comes to game and social skills but have recently just had a really good first date (make out and great chemistry) and second date pretty quickly scheduled afterwards with a 7/8 out of 10 girl. It took me around a year of struggling a lot on the apps and on dates to finally find a pretty cute girl like her that and incorporating a lot of high value behaviors, teasing and sexuality in my dates (first time using handclasp on this particular date and it was incredibly effective!).
With this girl she is my type, but it remains to be seen if she's LTR material or it's going to pan but just the success overall of the date and seducing her introduces to me this problem where I still have a lot to grow in terms of getting more abundance with women and worrying about whether it's right or wrong to invest more in a serious relationship at the moment because it's my natural tendency to want to do that, but it would cut my seduction journey short. But the problem is I don't want to be in the situation I was in before (LTR with an 8/10 girl 19-23, made my social / dating skills completely detetoriate, and made me quite lazy). Yet my programming is to naturally want to invest in a girl if we both like each other, so I feel a little confused at the moment, especially thinking about flaking on a girl I have a date scheduled with today just because I'm not really sure how good she looks, the logitstics are pretty bad, and I already have a girl I'm interested in.
I have a lot of mixed emotions right now. Besides this girl I still have a lot of scarcity. I'm 24, and I was planning on quitting my job to take a year off to focus on game and get a clearer view of how I want to play out my life, moving out of the suburbs and moving across the country, or even solo travel around the world, eurojaunt, etc, grind more on the apps and get over my approach anxiety in person. There's still a big question of how good I can get, but just at the moment if in theory this girl really wanted an LTR, it would be hard for me to deny it...
With this girl she is my type, but it remains to be seen if she's LTR material or it's going to pan but just the success overall of the date and seducing her introduces to me this problem where I still have a lot to grow in terms of getting more abundance with women and worrying about whether it's right or wrong to invest more in a serious relationship at the moment because it's my natural tendency to want to do that, but it would cut my seduction journey short. But the problem is I don't want to be in the situation I was in before (LTR with an 8/10 girl 19-23, made my social / dating skills completely detetoriate, and made me quite lazy). Yet my programming is to naturally want to invest in a girl if we both like each other, so I feel a little confused at the moment, especially thinking about flaking on a girl I have a date scheduled with today just because I'm not really sure how good she looks, the logitstics are pretty bad, and I already have a girl I'm interested in.
I have a lot of mixed emotions right now. Besides this girl I still have a lot of scarcity. I'm 24, and I was planning on quitting my job to take a year off to focus on game and get a clearer view of how I want to play out my life, moving out of the suburbs and moving across the country, or even solo travel around the world, eurojaunt, etc, grind more on the apps and get over my approach anxiety in person. There's still a big question of how good I can get, but just at the moment if in theory this girl really wanted an LTR, it would be hard for me to deny it...
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