As You DIVE into NEW WORLD

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Guys,

As you progress building a a new perspective of dating life, I would just like to note that some or even most of us will experience conflicting beliefs that will be challenge in the days ahead of us. The beliefs that you trying to change can be so common that it looks 'dead wrong' to yourself as you grown up believing things that society, parents, teachers, girl friends or anyone had told you, or even nurture.

Common beliefs are,

1) Have Sex On First Date Is Wrong.
2) A girl making out with lots of guys is a slut. (just a recent comment from a friend while we were in the club)
3) A girl rejecting you, (because of your own error or her not being genuine interested) is a slut or not worthy to have you.
4) Dating lots of girls is not 'right'.

and you can add more if you will.

It's a very subjective topic, but everyone has their own 'beliefs'. Quoted from Abraham Hicks, Beliefs' itself is just a thought you keep thinking.

What's your beliefs? and how you can alter those beliefs and change it in a light where it can help you instead? If it doesn't help at all, throw it then.

Zac

 

[Franco]

Hey Zac,

Thanks for the reminder to all of the newer members about the challenges to their beliefs that they will experience. It really is a much better world once you see it the way someone like Chase or myself does.

1) Have Sex On First Date Is Wrong.
2) A girl making out with lots of guys is a slut. (just a recent comment from a friend while we were in the club)

I would like to mention that two of my newer female friends that live in Las Vegas (and that I partied with during New Year's Eve) have actually both worked in the porn industry. One is currently a porn star and the other one stopped participating in it but is pole-dancing now instead.

The reason I wanted to bring this is up is that the "old me" would have probably never hung out with women who engaged in these activities simply because I would have considered them to be "sluts" and "bad influences." When I got to know both of them from a completely non-judgmental perspective, I found out that they were just girls trying to make a living just like anyone else out there. While their not-so-positive pasts may have affected their career choices, they are looking to be loved and appreciated just like anyone else. What is great about these girls is that they are actually a lot of fun to hang out with, and they truly appreciate guys who don't see them as pieces of meat because of their work history.

Every girl wants to be truly appreciated for who she is, regardless of what her past resume has written down on it. This website encourages getting out there and exposing yourself to people of every culture and every background while truly making an attempt to understand who they are. Once you begin to do that, you will realize that respect can be earned from almost anyone and everyone. The world becomes a different, better place.

Cheers!

- Franco

 

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Franco,

I hope you enjoyed your party in Las Vegas on New Year's Eve. Glad you're back.

Every girl wants to be truly appreciated for who she is, regardless of what her past resume has written down on it. This website encourages getting out there and exposing yourself to people of every culture and every background while truly making an attempt to understand who they are. Once you begin to do that, you will realize that respect can be earned from almost anyone and everyone. The world becomes a different, better place.

You know i was thinking about all those girls in facebook, twitter and all those love and "appreciate the girl" quotes. I have to agree with you Women wants to be truly appreciated for who they are, regardless. And, Respect definitely can be earned from almost anyone and everyone. But i do feel One should not lay down so much for other people antics should he be challenge for way too many times, at least for some of the members in the board, with their post.

Sometimes people can be a nuance though. just saying

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

Correction:

But i do feel One should not lay down so much for other people antics should he be challenge for way too many times, at least for some of the members in the board, with their post.

It is not that our members are nuance. The people, that they face problems with, in their post.

Zac