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on a sunny beautiful day visiting a friend back in university and doing some day game on campus
out of 4 approaches, 1 was a complete blowout, she was headphones on and mask wearing so whatever, 2 I got the number and the last one was actually insta dating until she was coerced into leaving with these soy boys from her country
I was walking with my friend, chatting shit walking around building up momentum and energy, on the side, I saw this girl walking giving me a side eye twice and moving towards my side, blatant approach invitations. likely she heard my voice and was aroused...
I forgot what I opened with but somewhere along the lines of
when we locked eyes,
"Japanese?"
she lit up. wasn't the most planned and best opener but I figured it made sense, with a bit of cold read is fine... not your indirect GOD MODE openings.
continuing intense eye contact
chatted about how she was visiting here for language studying and is from a place under Tokyo
I seeded for the beach with a nice view, could take pictures
didn't immediately go for the ask because I wanted to seed the image a lot more so she will have higher compliance when I asked
during the conversation, she stopped walking and changed to the opposite direction where we came from so she was super compliant
we had super intense eye contact without much breaking because I felt the sexual attraction with one another
once I felt there was enough compliance, I stopped at a low traffic place to call the uber, but the uber was 16 min! away WTF!
part of me wanted to test compliance because I got laid the previous day, but people hide in the shadow to damage your life
losing the girl when I broke circle to use the bathroom and buy a soda, asswhip move :/
6 soy boys came up social pressuring the girl to leave with them, the story of my life.
what I could have done was drive my car, walk with her to the beach, tell my friend to stay together with me as a bodyguard instead of leaving, ignored the 6 soy boys and turned my girl's body completely towards me, and grabbed my girl and left and etc
I had the social frame, it wasn't the problem. total wildcard
mist22 said these dudes were creeping on us the whole time and struck when I left to use the bathroom, horrible decision on my end. it was that physically I could beat the guys, I'm pretty sure it wasn't a problem 1 vs 6 I'll still win but the social pressure that existed for the girl.
out of 4 approaches, 1 was a complete blowout, she was headphones on and mask wearing so whatever, 2 I got the number and the last one was actually insta dating until she was coerced into leaving with these soy boys from her country
I was walking with my friend, chatting shit walking around building up momentum and energy, on the side, I saw this girl walking giving me a side eye twice and moving towards my side, blatant approach invitations. likely she heard my voice and was aroused...
I forgot what I opened with but somewhere along the lines of
when we locked eyes,
"Japanese?"
she lit up. wasn't the most planned and best opener but I figured it made sense, with a bit of cold read is fine... not your indirect GOD MODE openings.
continuing intense eye contact
chatted about how she was visiting here for language studying and is from a place under Tokyo
I seeded for the beach with a nice view, could take pictures
didn't immediately go for the ask because I wanted to seed the image a lot more so she will have higher compliance when I asked
during the conversation, she stopped walking and changed to the opposite direction where we came from so she was super compliant
we had super intense eye contact without much breaking because I felt the sexual attraction with one another
once I felt there was enough compliance, I stopped at a low traffic place to call the uber, but the uber was 16 min! away WTF!
part of me wanted to test compliance because I got laid the previous day, but people hide in the shadow to damage your life
losing the girl when I broke circle to use the bathroom and buy a soda, asswhip move :/
6 soy boys came up social pressuring the girl to leave with them, the story of my life.
what I could have done was drive my car, walk with her to the beach, tell my friend to stay together with me as a bodyguard instead of leaving, ignored the 6 soy boys and turned my girl's body completely towards me, and grabbed my girl and left and etc
I had the social frame, it wasn't the problem. total wildcard
mist22 said these dudes were creeping on us the whole time and struck when I left to use the bathroom, horrible decision on my end. it was that physically I could beat the guys, I'm pretty sure it wasn't a problem 1 vs 6 I'll still win but the social pressure that existed for the girl.