Asking a girl for compliance and then a few months later, she asks me if i remember when she did X?

[jesslee09]

Hey guys,

So theres a pattern of behavior from girisl I’ve noticed when I ask for compliance.

One of the girls I asked to give me a ride to the mall, and she gave me a ride.

I ran into her a few months later and she asks me

“Do you remember that day when i walked you to class and gave you a ride after?”

Or i had a pretty cute co-worker who I asked to get me some coffee while she was on her lunch. And a few days later she starts a conversation with me and says

“Did you enjoy the coffee I got you a few days ago?”

From a compliance point of view, in my gut feeling it feels wrong to up the compliance ladder even more and some girls start to hesitate when i ask for more compliance

Is there something Im missing?

 

[Fuck This]

Did you adequately reward their compliance through praise and thanks?

I think they are looking to be sure you truly appreciated their effort. Reward them with praise and move on.

#1 "I really enjoyed spending that time with you. We should do that again."

#2 "I DID enjoy it. I love how you thought of me."