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Hi Guys,
Whenever i ask girls for compliance, i will occasionally meet with a stumble block. This is only because i was too direct like "let's go out" or "let's go home" or "do you want to come over to my house?".
From a martial arts perspective, from what i understand: What exactly happen here is i am fallen to the enemy's trap pretty fast. Now the "enemy" is the women. Not as in enemy but you get what i mean.
There's a shaolin quote: "The enemy has only images and illusions. Behind which he hides his true motives. Destroy the image and You break the enemy".
I remember what Chase said, "Women want things to be natural". I realize that when women starts opening up, Don't jump straight in. I am not saying here as in missing escalation windows when there's opportunity but there's an "in between" qualifier for you to so called test the waters to make sure that the doors are open.
It's very complex for me to explain this.
Zac
Whenever i ask girls for compliance, i will occasionally meet with a stumble block. This is only because i was too direct like "let's go out" or "let's go home" or "do you want to come over to my house?".
From a martial arts perspective, from what i understand: What exactly happen here is i am fallen to the enemy's trap pretty fast. Now the "enemy" is the women. Not as in enemy but you get what i mean.
There's a shaolin quote: "The enemy has only images and illusions. Behind which he hides his true motives. Destroy the image and You break the enemy".
I remember what Chase said, "Women want things to be natural". I realize that when women starts opening up, Don't jump straight in. I am not saying here as in missing escalation windows when there's opportunity but there's an "in between" qualifier for you to so called test the waters to make sure that the doors are open.
It's very complex for me to explain this.
Zac
