Hi,
I've been a member for about 4 months (active reader) now and I've tried different stuff out.
I love the stuff, my "nice guy" status is slowly becoming jerkish and that's good in my opinion, it's a step. Meeting new woman is still tricky but I'm sure that I'll manage that soon.. I also tried out some stuff like intermittent fastening to boost my testosterone and try to use some good body language and occasionally girls even hot girls wink at me or even come to talk to me, which really is a great feeling!
But now I stumbled across a problem with girls: I just fail every time to ask them out to my place (I'm 18 years old, if that helps). I often say "Hey, we should meet during the holidays, could be fun right?" (because I'm still in school) and then usually, or at the moment you could even say each time they say something like "Yeah yeah maybe, we'll see". When I ask about their schedule, they often say that they won't do much or that they don't know yet so I often respond with "Well, like you don't know what you'll do during the holidays, let's just pick out a day to see each other! Does *day* sound good for you?" and then often they go crazy and repeat that they don't know yet.
So what could I do against this, and what is this behavior I stumble every time on? Is this disinterest, scared of having sex/to mess it up, or something else? What kind of answers (verbal/non verbal) could I answer with next time and what kind of mindset should I use here? Also please note that I never ask them out via sms or phone, I talk to them, look them deep in their eyes, stay calm, and still this problem stays here..
Thanks for helping me out
I've been a member for about 4 months (active reader) now and I've tried different stuff out.
I love the stuff, my "nice guy" status is slowly becoming jerkish and that's good in my opinion, it's a step. Meeting new woman is still tricky but I'm sure that I'll manage that soon.. I also tried out some stuff like intermittent fastening to boost my testosterone and try to use some good body language and occasionally girls even hot girls wink at me or even come to talk to me, which really is a great feeling!But now I stumbled across a problem with girls: I just fail every time to ask them out to my place (I'm 18 years old, if that helps). I often say "Hey, we should meet during the holidays, could be fun right?" (because I'm still in school) and then usually, or at the moment you could even say each time they say something like "Yeah yeah maybe, we'll see". When I ask about their schedule, they often say that they won't do much or that they don't know yet so I often respond with "Well, like you don't know what you'll do during the holidays, let's just pick out a day to see each other! Does *day* sound good for you?" and then often they go crazy and repeat that they don't know yet.
So what could I do against this, and what is this behavior I stumble every time on? Is this disinterest, scared of having sex/to mess it up, or something else? What kind of answers (verbal/non verbal) could I answer with next time and what kind of mindset should I use here? Also please note that I never ask them out via sms or phone, I talk to them, look them deep in their eyes, stay calm, and still this problem stays here..
Thanks for helping me out
