Asking someone out

[Anonymous]

A lot of the advice given is for situations in which you just met someone and talked to them for a little while before asking for their number and a date. How do I go about asking someone out who I see every day and talk to every day? What do I say to initiate "that" type of conversation? What do I do after her response? Continue to talk to her or dip out? Any other advice is welcome. Thanks

 

[Franco]

Winter,

The advice on this website is given towards girls you just met because those are the ones you have the best chance of making something happen with. Generally girls tend to categorize you very quickly (friend, lover, or provider), and if you take too long to make a move, you end up getting categorized as the friend or the provider, which makes it exponentially more difficult to make things happen with a girl.

For more information, check out this article:

• Attraction Has an Expiration Date

EDIT: Also somewhat related and worth reading is the following article:

• The Sad Tale of Shopping Guy

- Franco

 

[SaltyT]

A lot of the advice given is for situations in which you just met someone and talked to them for a little while before asking for their number and a date. How do I go about asking someone out who I see every day and talk to every day? What do I say to initiate "that" type of conversation? What do I do after her response? Continue to talk to her or dip out? Any other advice is welcome. Thanks

It's really hard because you have to move fast, like very very fast...

I've failed so many times it made me think what to do but it resumes in how you show value..

Probably many would say i'm wrong but what i do is being more like a Funny-warm-sexy guy, just in that order, that means:

1- Your fundamentals (the most important) always have to be awesome, like wearing sexy clothes with that touch of fashion for example.
2-Your Chat with her has to be funny (not too funny), intellectual (in work places or classes but not too much because it becomes boring, you need this just to show value and build that attachment with her) AND clever.
3- Warm because you need to physically escalate (in some situations it becomes odd and creepy when you guys know a lot so avoid this if that's the case), always try this.

And something really really important, i'd say after fundamentals is what makes her see you different:

4-Investment: Make her think about you, give her task, from little task like "can you borrow me a pencil".. to task like ask her to do something for you like getting food for you, buying you something because you can't and give her the money, a movie to download, getting some ppt of the classes for you..

I hope it helps, you cand pm if you need more help..

Cheers, sal