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Attainability Paradox: prettier/hotter girls auto rejects easier??

SSantorini

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Greetings!

I am new in this forum, but i read regularly the site articles. I am grateful to Chase and the others by my better understanding of dating and social dynamics.

One thing i am in doubt, based on my own experience (althought may be a misinterpretation of things by me): the prettier/hotter girls auto rejects easier? The obvious answer seens to be a sounding NO! Of course no! Prettier/hotter girls are higher in social value, so the odds they see you as unattainable ("too good to them") are low, right?

But...i guess that the way girls of different rates (or social values) interpret your behaviour towards them varies greatly. Being specific: a 6-7 girl isn't very much used to men treating them as queens, so they are MORE tolerant to a little aloofness without taking it as clear signs of rejection, because they are used with it, that is the usual way men treat them. A 9-10 girl, on the other side, is so used to be drooled over by men that the slightest sign of aloofness or "no care" attitude you display is taken as a big sign of rejection, or a big offense to their egos, so they auto reject to protect it.

Is there any bit of truth in this thesis? Or is it flawed in one or more partes? What's the opinnion of you guys on this matter?

Thanks very much in advance!
 
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